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PCIntern

(27,423 posts)
Thu Jun 19, 2025, 01:06 PM Thursday

So this is not uninteresting:

Yesterday, I flew out to California for a family wedding, and I had a fascinating experience on the plane. I was sitting in the middle seat and a very nice lady, about 80 years of age or so, sat herself down for the 5+ hour flight. She was a tiny bit intrusive but actually was really delightful, telling funny and entertaining stories of her life which was rather fascinating, asked us questions which were wholly appropriate and responding with perfectly formed follow-ups. Her son, sitting across from her on the aisle was traveling with her and minding his own business.

Around 7P.M. EDT she began asking me questions which were identical to those “asked and answered” already, and my eyebrow raised a mite. A few minutes later she began repeating herself and telling the same stories and asking the same questions over and over and by the time we disembarked in Phoenix where she was going and we were changing planes, she was literally repeating herself nonstop almost as though she had a superimposed pressure of speech on top of her sundowning. Tragic for her and her family and to a lesser extent for me, who stayed perfectly polite throughout this frustrating experience.

Anyone who would have met her would have assumed that she was in perfect cognitive shape. Short visits would not give a clue of the underlying problems, and I could only assume that if she were President, she too would have to leave the G7.

So there.

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So this is not uninteresting: (Original Post) PCIntern Thursday OP
I noticed the same thing with my MIL before she passed. pandr32 Thursday #1
The orange person you are referring to is a chatbot. usonian Thursday #2
Fascinating...thanks!! Recommended. PCIntern Thursday #3
"We're looking into that." "I'll have something in about 2 weeks." Liberal In Texas Thursday #4
they're terrible ppl. rly bad ppl. like you've never seen b4. etc. etc. mopinko Thursday #25
He has about a dozen stock phrases he uses over and over. bif Thursday #36
Like you've never seen before! BidenRocks Thursday #38
"I'm looking into that strongly." Ilsa Friday #43
Or "we'll see what happens." boonecreek Friday #51
This probably deserves an independent post. NNadir Thursday #7
You should do an OP with this, usonian! ❤️ littlemissmartypants Thursday #9
I did! 😇 April 30. usonian Thursday #16
The GC version... littlemissmartypants Thursday #17
Most informative, usonian! THANKS!!! calimary Thursday #14
Is this an OP somewhere? It should be! Beartracks Thursday #19
See my post above #16 usonian Thursday #23
His no basis in reality DENVERPOPS Thursday #29
This is the best explanation of his speech I've seen. It summarizes him perfectly ms liberty Thursday #40
You might be interested in this old article, if you haven't already seen it: eppur_se_muova Friday #46
You would'nt even need a ChatDJT Danascot Friday #47
I don't agree that it would discredit him in their eyes ms liberty Friday #49
This has always been Trump, tho. Self Esteem Friday #52
Same for my grandmother godsentme Thursday #5
Same with my husband's stepmother. ShazzieB Thursday #21
After a severe stroke my wife was like that. skydive forever Thursday #6
Interesting. Language full of form but void of content. littlemissmartypants Thursday #8
Is "Colorless green thoughts sleep fiercely" familiar ? eppur_se_muova Friday #44
I have read so much Noam Chomsky he could be my grandmother. littlemissmartypants Friday #45
This is where my wife is right now. Magoo48 Thursday #10
I'm sorry to hear that. NNadir Thursday #11
She's still at home with me; I'm the caretaker-in-chief. I will care for her until I can't. Magoo48 Thursday #15
I'm very impressed with the depth of your love. It reminds me... NNadir Thursday #24
Thank you for being the human being and spouse that you are. yellow dahlia Thursday #33
you are a good man onethatcares Friday #53
My you both know peace and good health. Magoo48 Friday #60
Strength for your journey. I am sorry to hear this. LoisB Thursday #26
I'm so sorry. area51 Thursday #41
That syndrome is known as "sundowning". Totally Tunsie Thursday #12
LOL DENVERPOPS Thursday #30
Very good and thanks... PCIntern Thursday #31
Yes, looking back, of course you did. Totally Tunsie Thursday #32
I used to joke about my dad, when his dementia was taking over bif Thursday #35
My MIL Does That, Too Deep State Witch Thursday #13
Hugs to all who are undergoing this. usonian Thursday #18
whenever I hear the same stories Skittles Thursday #20
That describes my father in a nutshell... Moostache Thursday #22
Such powerful and personal stories told by you and others. Thank you for sharing. erronis Thursday #27
I've seen this progression with several family members and acquaintances. Totally Tunsie Thursday #28
Big Diff, Doctor. Kid Berwyn Thursday #34
You nailed it! Totally Tunsie Thursday #37
I did not in any way attempt PCIntern Friday #54
My Communication Skills Devolving with Age, too. Kid Berwyn Friday #55
You are right about that. PCIntern Friday #56
Many years ago I witnessed something very similar WestMichRad Thursday #39
My sister got dementia fairly early. Fiddlelady11 Friday #42
You know who defeated chat box? CTyankee Friday #48
Read "Jan's Story" by Barry Peterson twodogsbarking Friday #50
If she were President gfarber Friday #57
Yep. jeffreyi Friday #58
At least she still has words. barbtries Friday #59

pandr32

(13,115 posts)
1. I noticed the same thing with my MIL before she passed.
Thu Jun 19, 2025, 01:10 PM
Thursday

It is like a loop. My kids and I used to grab each other as stand-ins as we made our own escapes. She would just continue on.

usonian

(18,573 posts)
2. The orange person you are referring to is a chatbot.
Thu Jun 19, 2025, 01:12 PM
Thursday
The Hallucinating ChatGPT Presidency
https://www.techdirt.com/2025/04/29/the-hallucinating-chatgpt-presidency/

But over the last few months, it has occurred to me that, for all the hype about generative AI systems “hallucinating,” we pay much less attention to the fact that the current President does the same thing, nearly every day. The more you look at the way Donald Trump spews utter nonsense answers to questions, the more you begin to recognize a clear pattern — he answers questions in a manner quite similar to early versions of ChatGPT. The facts don’t matter, the language choices are a mess, but they are all designed to present a plausible-sounding answer to the question, based on no actual knowledge, nor any concern for whether or not the underlying facts are accurate.

This pattern becomes impossible to unsee once you start looking for it. In his recent Time Magazine interview, Trump demonstrates exactly how this works. The process is remarkably consistent:

• A journalist asks a specific question about policy or events
• Trump, clearly unfamiliar with the actual details, activates his response generator
• Out comes a stream of confident-sounding words that maintain just enough semantic connection to the question to seem like an answer
• The response optimizes for what Trump thinks his audience wants to hear, rather than for accuracy or truth

You can pick almost any exchange from the interview to see this in action. He hits his talking points, but when pushed on things, he just starts making random wild claims with no basis in reality.

Liberal In Texas

(15,342 posts)
4. "We're looking into that." "I'll have something in about 2 weeks."
Thu Jun 19, 2025, 01:35 PM
Thursday

"We're studying that." "We have our best people on it."
"I'm not telling you what our plans are...besides you're fake news, who are you with..."
"That was a nasty question."

bif

(25,740 posts)
36. He has about a dozen stock phrases he uses over and over.
Thu Jun 19, 2025, 05:15 PM
Thursday

And his cult have no idea he never answers the questions or says anything original. Clueless, the whole lot of them.

NNadir

(36,062 posts)
7. This probably deserves an independent post.
Thu Jun 19, 2025, 02:04 PM
Thursday

I'm sure it would garner a lot of attention and recs.

usonian

(18,573 posts)
16. I did! 😇 April 30.
Thu Jun 19, 2025, 02:49 PM
Thursday

Last edited Thu Jun 19, 2025, 03:21 PM - Edit history (1)

https://upload.democraticunderground.com/100220281483

It's so hard keeping good stuff 🦵 kicked 🦵 here!

I just kicked it with a bonus hallucination!

And there's also the "He's George Costanza" version.

https://www.democraticunderground.com/100220357421

What a day. I also found the article I was looking for.
AI Chatbots Repeat Russian Disinformation at Scale
in the thread.

Thanks!

calimary

(86,777 posts)
14. Most informative, usonian! THANKS!!!
Thu Jun 19, 2025, 02:32 PM
Thursday

It certainly illuminates things.

And than you for this thread, PCIntern! For the same reason.

DENVERPOPS

(12,745 posts)
29. His no basis in reality
Thu Jun 19, 2025, 04:07 PM
Thursday

is a byproduct of him being totally delusional, which he needs, to reinforce him being a psychopath, which includes being a pathological liar......

ms liberty

(10,321 posts)
40. This is the best explanation of his speech I've seen. It summarizes him perfectly
Thu Jun 19, 2025, 10:00 PM
Thursday

• A journalist asks a specific question about policy or events
• Trump, clearly unfamiliar with the actual details, activates his response generator
• Out comes a stream of confident-sounding words that maintain just enough semantic connection to the question to seem like an answer
• The response optimizes for what Trump thinks his audience wants to hear, rather than for accuracy or truth


He never has any details, any specifics, any information in his commentary that indicates any real understanding of the issue he's discussing.

eppur_se_muova

(39,213 posts)
46. You might be interested in this old article, if you haven't already seen it:
Fri Jun 20, 2025, 04:18 AM
Friday
Weizenbaum’s nightmares: how the inventor of the first chatbot turned against AI

Computer scientist Joseph Weizenbaum was there at the dawn of artificial intelligence – but he was also adamant that we must never confuse computers with humans
By Ben Tarnoff
Tue 25 Jul 2023 00.00 EDT
Last modified on Fri 1 Sep 2023 00.00 EDT

In 1966, an MIT professor named Joseph Weizenbaum created the first chatbot. He cast it in the role of a psychotherapist. A user would type a message on an electric typewriter connected to a mainframe. After a moment, the “psychotherapist” would reply.

User: Men are all alike.
Chatbot: IN WHAT WAY
User: They’re always bugging us about something or other.
Chatbot: CAN YOU THINK OF A SPECIFIC EXAMPLE
User: Well, my boyfriend made me come here.
Chatbot: YOUR BOYFRIEND MADE YOU COME HERE
User: He says I’m depressed much of the time.
Chatbot: I AM SORRY TO HEAR YOU ARE DEPRESSED

Weizenbaum published this sample exchange in a journal article that explained how the chatbot worked. The software was relatively simple. It looked at the user input and applied a set of rules to generate a plausible response. He called the program Eliza, after Eliza Doolittle in Pygmalion. The cockney flower girl in George Bernard Shaw’s play uses language to produce an illusion: she elevates her elocution to the point where she can pass for a duchess. Similarly, Eliza would speak in such a way as to produce the illusion that it understood the person sitting at the typewriter.

“Some subjects have been very hard to convince that Eliza (with its present script) is not human,” Weizenbaum wrote. In a follow-up article that appeared the next year, he was more specific: one day, he said, his secretary requested some time with Eliza. After a few moments, she asked Weizenbaum to leave the room. “I believe this anecdote testifies to the success with which the program maintains the illusion of understanding,” he noted.

Eliza isn’t exactly obscure. It caused a stir at the time – the Boston Globe sent a reporter to go and sit at the typewriter and ran an excerpt of the conversation – and remains one of the best known developments in the history of computing. More recently, the release of ChatGPT has renewed interest in it. In the last year, Eliza has been invoked in the Guardian, the New York Times, the Atlantic and elsewhere. The reason that people are still thinking about a piece of software that is nearly 60 years old has nothing to do with its technical aspects, which weren’t terribly sophisticated even by the standards of its time. Rather, Eliza illuminated a mechanism of the human mind that strongly affects how we relate to computers.

Early in his career, Sigmund Freud noticed that his patients kept falling in love with him. It wasn’t because he was exceptionally charming or good-looking, he concluded. Instead, something more interesting was going on: transference. Briefly, transference refers to our tendency to project feelings about someone from our past on to someone in our present. While it is amplified by being in psychoanalysis, it is a feature of all relationships. When we interact with other people, we always bring a group of ghosts to the encounter. The residue of our earlier life, and above all our childhood, is the screen through which we see one another.
***
more: https://www.theguardian.com/technology/2023/jul/25/joseph-weizenbaum-inventor-eliza-chatbot-turned-against-artificial-intelligence-ai


When PCs first started moving into homes, I remember even kids could get a copy of ELIZA and run it on those simple 80's platforms. So it can't be all that complicated. I wonder how hard it would be to "blowgrade" ELIZA into a ChatDJT that gives authentic-sounding Trumpian responses ? Make it into viral shareware and see how much people get out of comparing DJT's actual pronouncements with the slop from ChatDJT -- would that discredit Turnip in some diehards' eyes ?

Danascot

(5,068 posts)
47. You would'nt even need a ChatDJT
Fri Jun 20, 2025, 07:21 AM
Friday

Just load his stock phrases into a pull-string doll and it would be just as coherent as the real thing.

ms liberty

(10,321 posts)
49. I don't agree that it would discredit him in their eyes
Fri Jun 20, 2025, 08:55 AM
Friday

I think they'd be proud as hell to have themselves their very own Trump-Generator so they could talk to him all on their own.

 

Self Esteem

(2,248 posts)
52. This has always been Trump, tho.
Fri Jun 20, 2025, 09:27 AM
Friday

Maybe a bit worse as he gets older but it's identical to his first term. I don't really see it as Trump sundowning (as the way he talks is almost indistinguishable from four or even eight years ago and this is where things would have progressed considerably if he had dementia or something).

The most likely answer is that Trump is extremely lazy and possibly dull. He refuses to actually learn about anything he's talking about and instead attempts to wing it.

In the corporate world, it's referred to as vamping. You basically just say things to get through a question but gussy it up enough that it sounds good enough.

The problem, as I mentioned, is that Trump is likely dull and can't do it. He's like a kid tasked to give an oral book report who refuses to read the book and instead only bases his knowledge of the book on the summary from the back cover.

godsentme

(147 posts)
5. Same for my grandmother
Thu Jun 19, 2025, 02:00 PM
Thursday

She sounded perfectly lucid. If you didn't know her, short conversations would seem very normal. I've often thought of this in reference to TSF.

ShazzieB

(20,982 posts)
21. Same with my husband's stepmother.
Thu Jun 19, 2025, 03:20 PM
Thursday

The first sign of her encroaching dementia was asking the same questions and telling the same stories over and over again. We were too naive to realize what was going on at first (and my fil was pretty much in denial for a long time), but as things progressed, I could look back and see that behavior for what it was in hindsight.

I regret being so oblivious at the time, but it was my husband's and my first experience with someone in that state, and we were just clueless. In those early stages, her personality hadn't changed noticeably, and we just thought she was extremely, annoyingly absent-minded. Eventually, the signs became much more obvious, and looking back I feel like we maybe should have caught on much faster than we did, but it's amazing what you can miss when you don't know what to look for.

skydive forever

(496 posts)
6. After a severe stroke my wife was like that.
Thu Jun 19, 2025, 02:04 PM
Thursday

She could seem perfectly normal, and then she would say something way out there. Brain injuries SUCK!

littlemissmartypants

(28,274 posts)
8. Interesting. Language full of form but void of content.
Thu Jun 19, 2025, 02:05 PM
Thursday

Which means all of the parts of speech and basic coherent sentences are there but it's not attached to reality or anything meaningful.

A little something that I learnt in college.

❤️

eppur_se_muova

(39,213 posts)
44. Is "Colorless green thoughts sleep fiercely" familiar ?
Fri Jun 20, 2025, 03:56 AM
Friday

I think it was Noam Chomsky who came us with this, after being challenged to construct a sentence which was syntactically and grammatically correct, but which conveyed no information.

Magoo48

(6,484 posts)
10. This is where my wife is right now.
Thu Jun 19, 2025, 02:07 PM
Thursday

She carries on the banter which accompanies our relationship with wit and continuity. As soon as we are finished with an exchange, she has no recollection of it. The long goodbye, yes, it is indeed.

Magoo48

(6,484 posts)
15. She's still at home with me; I'm the caretaker-in-chief. I will care for her until I can't.
Thu Jun 19, 2025, 02:38 PM
Thursday

Thanks for asking. I have people I can talk to, and children who support me in different ways. We’ve been married for 45 years, it’s a very personal effort for me, caring for her. Nevertheless, I feel like I’ll know when time is up.

NNadir

(36,062 posts)
24. I'm very impressed with the depth of your love. It reminds me...
Thu Jun 19, 2025, 03:33 PM
Thursday

...of the depth of my father's love for my mother as she was dying of a brain tumor, her mind unraveling day by day.

He made me understand what it is to be a man, something you clearly know quite well.

I was in awe of him and I am similarly in awe of anyone with such depth of love.

yellow dahlia

(2,577 posts)
33. Thank you for being the human being and spouse that you are.
Thu Jun 19, 2025, 05:05 PM
Thursday

Taking care of someone in their last years, who is in need of caretaking, is a gift to them. And it also becomes a gift from them to you - you will always have that connection. I am having difficulty explaining it, but you will feel it...I'm sure.

onethatcares

(16,864 posts)
53. you are a good man
Fri Jun 20, 2025, 10:10 AM
Friday

this past Monday a tumor was discovered in my wife's skull pressing against her brain. Her moods and speech patterns have changed and I am trying to deal with these changes.

I'm at a loss as to how to deal with all of them until next week when she has surgery to remove said tumor. but I am trying.

Peace to you.

Totally Tunsie

(10,964 posts)
12. That syndrome is known as "sundowning".
Thu Jun 19, 2025, 02:14 PM
Thursday
This info is better than I can provide off my head:

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Sundowning#:~:text=Sundowning%2C%20or%20sundown%20syndrome%2C%20is,late%20afternoon%20and%20early%20evening.


Sundowning, or sundown syndrome,[1] is a neurological phenomenon wherein people with delirium or some form of dementia experience increased confusion and restlessness beginning in the late afternoon and early evening. It is most commonly associated with Alzheimer's disease but is also found in those with other forms of dementia. The term sundowning was coined by nurse Lois K. Evans in 1987 due to the association between the person's increased confusion and the setting of the sun.[2][3]

*snip*

For people with sundown syndrome, a multitude of behavioral problems begin to occur and are associated with long-term adverse outcomes.[4][5][6][7] Sundowning seems to occur more frequently during the middle stages of Alzheimer's disease and mixed dementia and seems to subside with the progression of the person's dementia.[4][5] People are generally able to understand that this behavioral pattern is abnormal. Research shows that 20–45% of people with Alzheimer's will experience some variation of sundowning confusion.[4][8] However, despite lack of an official diagnosis of sundown syndrome in the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders, Fifth Edition (DSM-5), there is currently a wide range of reported prevalence.[2]


DENVERPOPS

(12,745 posts)
30. LOL
Thu Jun 19, 2025, 04:11 PM
Thursday

Trump, to counteract that, starts binging on Adderall after dinner, and keeps it going until 3am with his barrage of messaging. That is the reason he has "Personal Time" every morning to get some sleep....

PCIntern

(27,423 posts)
31. Very good and thanks...
Thu Jun 19, 2025, 04:12 PM
Thursday

I did use that term in the OP and thanks for the elucidation for others

bif

(25,740 posts)
35. I used to joke about my dad, when his dementia was taking over
Thu Jun 19, 2025, 05:13 PM
Thursday

That he had sundowners, sunrisers, sunafternooners, etc...

usonian

(18,573 posts)
18. Hugs to all who are undergoing this.
Thu Jun 19, 2025, 03:05 PM
Thursday

I shifted the thread a bit by focusing on someone who is supposed to be alert but who speaks in echoes.

I lost a brilliant neighbor to Alzheimers and it hurt to see him unable to communicate even at the level discussed here.

Skittles

(165,270 posts)
20. whenever I hear the same stories
Thu Jun 19, 2025, 03:19 PM
Thursday

I ask them different questions - about where they were, who they were with, maybe even who was president then?

I figure it's a good memory for them and asking them questions changes the response a bit which may change the narrative somewhat.

Moostache

(10,618 posts)
22. That describes my father in a nutshell...
Thu Jun 19, 2025, 03:20 PM
Thursday

He has dementia (diagnosed) and is in terminal decline at 82 years old. He seems to be fine at the beginning of any exchange or conversation, but within a few minutes he begins to lose the plot and begins repeating himself. Asking the same question 3, 4, 5 times in a 10 minute stretch, getting stuck on one detail and losing the ability to focus on other details.

If things persist for too long, he begins to get nervous and shifts his weight a lot (as if sitting is becoming painful) and gets a confused appearance and demeanor, sometimes agitation and anger join the party too. I have learned to adapt to him as best I can and communicate in short, declarative sentences and nothing more than a 3 or 4 sentence story / update. Sundowning is also VERY real and VERY confusing for him. He has a terrible time during the evening hours and also with his sleep patterns - often getting into patterns where he tries to go to sleep at 3PM and is wide awake and wandering his facility at 3 AM.

Its heart breaking and deveastating to live through and watch while being powerless to help. Over the last 5 years, my dad has lost my mother (his wife of 53 years), his home (after a stroke left him remarkably intact but unable to be left alone and we had him move 5 hours closer to my sister and I), his independence (when we had no choice but to take his car keys as he was no loner able to drive safely at all), his continence (which was robbed from him by bladder cancer and advancing issues elsewhere) and his mobility (when a fall resulted in a broken hip). Through it all, he has been remarkably resilient and physically recovered from all of it prior to the hip injury. That ended his mobility for good at this point.

Since last summer, he has been fading more rapidly and retreating deeper into the haze of dementia more and more. I visit him twice a week and he doesn't remember the weekday visit by Saturday or the weekend visit by the next week. He has forgotten his grandchildren's names and ages and is receeding deeper by the week. Watching all of this is eerily similar to what happened with my grandmother (his mother) a decade ago. She too had dementia and she lasted 17 years in a care facility and had no idea who any of us were by the 7th year there. By the end, she did not know my dad, her name, where she was, how long she had been there...nothing, just a blank slate. Her decline began around age 80. My dad's issues truthfully began at least a decade ago, but he had my mom until 2020 to cover for him and guide him and remind him of things. Since her passing, he has been adrift in every way imaginable.

All of this weighs on me daily like a ton of bricks. I have started a ghoulish countdown in my own head of the 26 years I MAY have left of good cognition and a reason to keep living. I won't make it that far and I know it. I have health maladies that don't presage a lifespan into the mid-80s or beyond, and given what I have witnessed and seen and lived through twice now, I don't want those years anyway. The humiliation and degradation that my father's eyes reflect every time he can't remember something or is in need of toilet care breaks me and leaves me wishing for no part of this dreaded family tradition.

This past father's day, I became the oldest thing remaining in my dad's life. He was 27 when he lost his father (in 1970, 6 weeks before I was born), a husband for 53 years (until 2020) and my father since 1971 - now 54 years ago. I cherish the time we had, but I mourn his slow, irreversible decline and losing him a piece at a time now hating myself for finding excuses to stay away from his facility at times because I am too weak to take it again. When I was younger I used to fear dying too young, now that I am older I fear living too long. It sucks. The only thing that makes it at all bearable is when I can bring up a memory that he still has command of and the light that comes back on however briefly...I just wish I was better at that than I am.

erronis

(20,294 posts)
27. Such powerful and personal stories told by you and others. Thank you for sharing.
Thu Jun 19, 2025, 03:54 PM
Thursday

I feel the same way about "living too long" and hope I have the wherewithal to not have to go there.

Totally Tunsie

(10,964 posts)
28. I've seen this progression with several family members and acquaintances.
Thu Jun 19, 2025, 04:04 PM
Thursday

This comment particularly hits home to me: "When I was younger I used to fear dying too young, now that I am older I fear living too long." Words so true.

Thank you for your very insightful post. Hugs to you, Moostache.

Kid Berwyn

(20,862 posts)
34. Big Diff, Doctor.
Thu Jun 19, 2025, 05:06 PM
Thursday

Your seat mate, no matter how many connections her mind has lost due to time and circumstance, sounds like she is still a good person: "one who cares about others."

The traitor "who cares only for himself" ran ran ran away from Banff when confronted by others who could see his inadequacy.

Totally Tunsie

(10,964 posts)
37. You nailed it!
Thu Jun 19, 2025, 06:20 PM
Thursday

That's EXACTLY why he left. His "concerns" about Iran were non-existent. As always, it was only about his
fee-fees. Whatta' Loser!

PCIntern

(27,423 posts)
54. I did not in any way attempt
Fri Jun 20, 2025, 10:35 AM
Friday

to equate the two individuals. I was talking about a pathology which affects millions.

Kid Berwyn

(20,862 posts)
55. My Communication Skills Devolving with Age, too.
Fri Jun 20, 2025, 10:53 AM
Friday
"The single biggest problem in communication is the illusion that it has taken place." -- George Bernard Shaw

Sorry, my Friend, that I did not make clear that I appreciate and respect your perspective.

Your motives are that of the health care professional. Mine are that of a rhetorician.

Any judgmental aspects are my own.

The elders who have been in my care -- parents and in-laws -- have revealed their inner, most basic natures in their decline.

I wanted to ake clear: Those who grew up and lived loving others did not change in how they treated others as time progressed.

PCIntern

(27,423 posts)
56. You are right about that.
Fri Jun 20, 2025, 11:26 AM
Friday

I will say that by the time the flight landed I had been asked no fewer than 17 times where I was going and why…each time in exactly the same tone of voice with the exact same facial expressions. Remarkable. And yes, I counted the number.

WestMichRad

(2,355 posts)
39. Many years ago I witnessed something very similar
Thu Jun 19, 2025, 09:52 PM
Thursday

… when I spent a full day with my father. It was very out of the ordinary for him. Found out several days later that he had suffered a mini-stroke that led to this impairment.

Fortunately for all, it didn’t appear to have any long duration effects… he was very lucky. Lived another 25 years in fairly good health throughout.

Fiddlelady11

(70 posts)
42. My sister got dementia fairly early.
Fri Jun 20, 2025, 12:25 AM
Friday

She wasn’t even 65. I didn’t realize what was going on with her until we were in a store and she handed me her cash to pay. She couldn’t count it.

CTyankee

(66,414 posts)
48. You know who defeated chat box?
Fri Jun 20, 2025, 08:53 AM
Friday

Emily Dickinson. Chatbox didn't know what the hell to do with her poetry.

I take comfort in knowing that.

jeffreyi

(2,393 posts)
58. Yep.
Fri Jun 20, 2025, 11:51 AM
Friday

If you only spend a few minutes, everything seems fine. But everything is not fine. My mom went through this.

barbtries

(30,518 posts)
59. At least she still has words.
Fri Jun 20, 2025, 01:00 PM
Friday

My sister's dementia has left her almost entirely non verbal.

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