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angrychair

(12,168 posts)
Wed Mar 11, 2026, 01:52 PM 16 hrs ago

If you need to hear this

These are hard times for everyone. You are not alone.

If you or someone you care about is thinking of harming themselves or just needs someone to talk with please dial 988 from any US based phone.
Or text the word home to 741741

VETERANS: If you are having thoughts of suicide, call 988, then PRESS 1 or text 838255
(Thanks for catching that usonian)

You matter and you are worthy of a tomorrow.

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If you need to hear this (Original Post) angrychair 16 hrs ago OP
Thank you, mental health services are more important than ever now Walleye 16 hrs ago #1
Truly excellent post, angrychair Grim Chieftain 15 hrs ago #2
K&R 2naSalit 15 hrs ago #3
K&R...nt Wounded Bear 15 hrs ago #4
Thanks for posting this. I need to add that people who are depressed should avoid chatbots, because highplainsdem 15 hrs ago #5
Excellent point angrychair 15 hrs ago #6
Avoid all social media, in my opinion. SergeStorms 14 hrs ago #11
I agree canetoad 13 hrs ago #15
Thank you Angrychair JMCKUSICK 15 hrs ago #7
Always a good reminder. Thank you. hamsterjill 14 hrs ago #8
Great post MustLoveBeagles 14 hrs ago #9
K & R Permanut 14 hrs ago #10
Thanks. While I'm moonscape 14 hrs ago #12
Me, too, but not quite softly. quaint 13 hrs ago #14
A virtual hug for you MustLoveBeagles 13 hrs ago #19
A virtual hug for you MustLoveBeagles 13 hrs ago #20
Thank you. ZDU 14 hrs ago #13
Thanks for this AC. kairos12 13 hrs ago #16
K&R spanone 13 hrs ago #17
VETERANS: If you are having thoughts of suicide, call 988, then PRESS 1 or text 838255 usonian 13 hrs ago #18
Thank you angrychair 12 hrs ago #21
K&R jfz9580m 5 hrs ago #22

Grim Chieftain

(1,604 posts)
2. Truly excellent post, angrychair
Wed Mar 11, 2026, 02:37 PM
15 hrs ago

Such important information at this difficult time. Thank you for sharing this.

highplainsdem

(61,597 posts)
5. Thanks for posting this. I need to add that people who are depressed should avoid chatbots, because
Wed Mar 11, 2026, 02:49 PM
15 hrs ago

chatbots have at times pushed people into committing suicide. Even OpenAI's new ChatGPT Health, which has been tested and found not to be safe, can fail to react appropriately to warning signs.

https://www.democraticunderground.com/100221066192

angrychair

(12,168 posts)
6. Excellent point
Wed Mar 11, 2026, 02:57 PM
15 hrs ago

Al is not our friend and should no more ask Al for medical advice then you should ask your microwave for cooking tips.

SergeStorms

(20,445 posts)
11. Avoid all social media, in my opinion.
Wed Mar 11, 2026, 03:41 PM
14 hrs ago

There are some vicious people in the world today. They're usually wearing red ball caps with MAGA on them, for some unknown reason.

canetoad

(20,674 posts)
15. I agree
Wed Mar 11, 2026, 04:31 PM
13 hrs ago

They are like vampires that demand your time, attention, sanity and usually money.

hamsterjill

(17,487 posts)
8. Always a good reminder. Thank you.
Wed Mar 11, 2026, 03:20 PM
14 hrs ago

I would like to add - we are all in this together. If you have a friend or loved one who YOU notice being affected by all of this chaos and stress, please do your best to engage with them and see if they want to vent, etc.

Sometimes, the best medicine is a good friend just saying, "Hey!! You okay?"

The best revenge through all of this Trump shit is going to be for all of us to come out on the other side!!! As Desiderata reads:

You are a child of the universe;
No less than the trees and the stars;
You have a RIGHT to be here...

Beyond a wholesome discipline
Be gentle with yourself.

Hugs to all.



moonscape

(5,687 posts)
12. Thanks. While I'm
Wed Mar 11, 2026, 03:45 PM
14 hrs ago

not in danger of harming myself, I was indeed softly weeping when I opened this post.

Tough times for us all indeed.

usonian

(24,811 posts)
18. VETERANS: If you are having thoughts of suicide, call 988, then PRESS 1 or text 838255
Wed Mar 11, 2026, 04:46 PM
13 hrs ago

or visit https://www.veteranscrisisline.net/

Are you a Veteran in crisis or concerned about one?

You're not alone—the Veterans Crisis Line is here for you. You don't have to be enrolled in VA benefits or health care to call.

jfz9580m

(16,931 posts)
22. K&R
Thu Mar 12, 2026, 12:40 AM
5 hrs ago

I have a lot of sympathy for military veterans.

And I choose text because I would not blare my lately deliberately unvarnished views (good or bad, accurate perceptions or not, they are mine) with a bullhorn or machine personally..ymmv. I am myself very sensitive to information with light touches and sledgehammers have made me respond in kind but with text alone.

Locally I avoid everything. India is not ready for this and it is breaking the functioning parts. Hopefully over there you get this under control.

I am no luddite. But I do not believe in “moving fast and breaking shit”, “normalizing data leaks” irresponsibly. So I am leery of irresponsible Zuckerbergian or Musky use of information. Technology is not a beast to wield casually. It should be used with the appropriate level of care. Text with a human being and context I can process normally.
Mistakes happen and they can be corrected ss I forgive many errors..but not all.

Lol.. funny how the brain works..

I like Coleman Spilde’s movie reviews and use them to prod my brain. He comes off as a sweet man and I have been a friend to the community from way back. Wonder what happened to DUer blue bear..we had a rare laconic back and forth a few times..I was nam_78two back then. He was sweet..

Edit: well..one cannot speak in absolutes when communicating anything you barely get. But in my state (this idiotic communist state in India very friendly to the worst kinds of business interest and with a creepy misogynistic movie industry) with very rare exceptions (really just my delivery men since I am a medical marijuana user and would not want them maliciously targeted to teach disobedient women like me to stay in line..I post here for that reason..and my doctors who are cool and hopefully bright enough to avoid these creepy scammers in ai, data, and “art”)..outside ordinary life this place is too creepy. Normal life is cool. This shit hell no. It will break what works.
And non locally…the marijuana and vegan industries minus any tech or gaming etc and only the most basic honest logistics, no. And this has been really bad.
One cannot speak in absolutes as a rational human. But odds are really bad that the few things I mentioned aside anything local to me was anything but corrupt with machines exploited for plausible deniability.
I have not been in the US since 2014. But it sounds rough..


And what I write is mainly for all the human experts/regulators with full context and rare people who get it. It is not possible to craft a general message that does not potentially add to the nuisance value..I am not liability conscious. But I am responsible, because unlike all those damn idiots. I have always believed in real accountability (because I am constantly held accountable and that is good when it is not a greedy performance but the real thing). Like Winston from 1984, I am belatedly taking a small amount of pleasure in what, while a chore, can if done with finesse and delicacy have some overlap with a scientific problem.
Very little of this will survive as I am trying to survive and this bloody Ubik from hell cannot mine me rapaciously and extractively.

I am democratic and transparent in sane ways..not bodily function overshares (goddamn idiots with no concept of human dignity..bulk! Scale! “Demographic dividends!” Airheads..).. and will draft my messages keeping both in mind.

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