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MIButterfly

(3,454 posts)
Mon Jun 22, 2026, 07:54 PM 23 hrs ago

My mother was a liberal Democrat and my uncle, her brother,

Last edited Tue Jun 23, 2026, 09:47 AM - Edit history (1)

is a conservative Republican. You can imagine what fireworks flew every time the two of them got within two feet of each other. I wondered how two siblings, from the same background and class (first generation American) could have two such extreme opposing viewpoints. I once asked my mother how she became a Democrat and she said "a boyfriend." Boy was that a let-down. I thought she had had an epiphany but no, she was influenced by a boyfriend.

It's all good though because she instilled in me a sense of justice, fairness, equality and all the ideals that we Democrats stand for, so thanks, Mom!

My uncle, on the other hand, can't be reasoned with so I don't even try. I refuse to talk politics with him. That doesn't stop him from trying from time to time and you wouldn't believe some of the ignorant stuff he says. I don't take the bait, as hard as it may be. I just wait until he's finished and change the subject.

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My mother was a liberal Democrat and my uncle, her brother, (Original Post) MIButterfly 23 hrs ago OP
Maybe it was because of the boyfriend that she had an epiphany? niyad 23 hrs ago #1
I'm the black sheep in my family! Diamond_Dog 23 hrs ago #2
Everyone in my family are Democrats Woodwizard 23 hrs ago #3

Diamond_Dog

(41,496 posts)
2. I'm the black sheep in my family!
Mon Jun 22, 2026, 08:21 PM
23 hrs ago

I’m the only liberal from a family of right wing republicans! My parents are long gone, I do have cousins that I’m not very close to. All that’s left is my sister and we agreed not to talk politics.

My husband and three adult sons are all Democrats, fortunately.

Woodwizard

(1,346 posts)
3. Everyone in my family are Democrats
Mon Jun 22, 2026, 08:30 PM
23 hrs ago

Everyone in my wife's family are Republicans besides her.

They do not talk politics with me sinc the Bush administration.

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