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Permanut

(7,062 posts)
Tue Apr 22, 2025, 05:11 PM Apr 22

Just got a call from the surgeon that my wife of 37 years did well with hip replacement surgery..

Sharing that with you guys because:

A. We can use all the good news we can get;

and

B, I'm sitting here by myself in the hospital cafe eating Cheetos by myself.

Hope she's good for another 37 years; I'll check the warranty.

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Just got a call from the surgeon that my wife of 37 years did well with hip replacement surgery.. (Original Post) Permanut Apr 22 OP
That's great! Here's to another 37! Scrivener7 Apr 22 #1
Hey, I'll be 125, but who's counting? Permanut Apr 22 #4
Long may you reign! Scrivener7 Apr 22 #12
YAHOO! MIButterfly Apr 22 #2
Thanks MIButterfly, going to see her in recovery right now. Permanut Apr 22 #5
Ty for the great news! SheltieLover Apr 22 #3
Thanks, SheltieLover, I'm going to deliver them right now in the recovery room. Permanut Apr 22 #6
Glad to hear good news! Karadeniz Apr 22 #7
Thanks Karadeniz! Permanut Apr 22 #48
That is great news. LoisB Apr 22 #8
I was sure glad to get that call from the doc! Permanut Apr 22 #49
Glad to hear that. riversedge Apr 22 #9
Hey, even better.. Permanut Apr 22 #50
Thanks for sharing this happy report! Tanuki Apr 22 #10
Thanks Tanuki, she's back home and in recovery mode. Permanut Apr 22 #51
Woo Hoo!!!! NewLarry Apr 22 #11
Ya know what, that's exactly what I'm going to do.. Permanut Apr 22 #52
Hip replacements have come a long way Figarosmom Apr 22 #13
Wow, that's amazing. It seems they recommend PT for everything these days. walkingman Apr 22 #15
It depends on how you do w/o it. Figarosmom Apr 22 #18
Nothing, including shoulder replacement, is as bad as a knee soldierant Apr 23 #122
Boy, ya got that right. Mind boggling that it can be done. Permanut Apr 23 #55
Yahoo...she will be up and about in no time. Great news! walkingman Apr 22 #14
She's done a few steps at home with the walker.. Permanut Apr 23 #56
I've had both mine done - R in 2013 and L in 2021. 3catwoman3 Apr 22 #16
Thanks 3catwoan3.. Permanut Apr 23 #57
Woohoo iluvtennis Apr 22 #17
So happy for you and your wife! senseandsensibility Apr 22 #19
Okay, this is good.. Permanut Apr 23 #58
snicker! niyad Apr 23 #87
Sounds like she has your sense of humor senseandsensibility Apr 23 #111
Good news. And now, you can breathe. Speedy healing to your wife. jrthin Apr 22 #20
Thanks jrthin.. Permanut Apr 23 #59
Wonderful! rubbersole Apr 22 #21
Now that's a home remedy I can get behind! Permanut Apr 23 #60
Excellent news! leftieNanner Apr 22 #22
Excellent advice . Permanut Apr 23 #61
Yeah! Thank you for sharing the good news. Wishing her a speedy recovery. nt Phoenix61 Apr 22 #23
Thanks Phoenix61! Permanut Apr 23 #62
Great! Encourage her to do all the physical therapy. surfered Apr 22 #24
I'm on it! Permanut Apr 23 #63
Thank you for sharing the good news about your wife's surgery, Permanut. wordstroken Apr 22 #25
Thanks, wordstroken, your words made me smile. Permanut Apr 23 #64
THAnks for sharing happy news! Amaryllis Apr 22 #26
Hey, had to tell my DU family! Permanut Apr 23 #65
I had mine done 20 years ago. It's still going strong. She will be happy with it. Srkdqltr Apr 22 #27
I'm gonna tell her about your experience . Permanut Apr 23 #67
Excellent News! Now you both can take a deep breath. Fla Dem Apr 22 #28
Zackly! That's what we're doing right now Permanut Apr 23 #68
Great news! gademocrat7 Apr 22 #29
Thanks, gademocrat7! Permanut Apr 23 #69
237 years Tetrachloride Apr 22 #30
Warranty expires in the year 2262! Permanut Apr 23 #70
I had one too... joanbarnes Apr 22 #31
She does have some pain now but manageable.. Permanut Apr 23 #71
That's fantastic 👍 excellent news TommieMommy Apr 22 #32
Hey we need that kind of news these days. Permanut Apr 23 #72
Happy for both of you malaise Apr 22 #33
Thanks malaise! Permanut Apr 23 #73
good to hear! OldSWODog Apr 22 #34
I hear ya, she's motivated.. Permanut Apr 23 #74
Sending healing vibes to your wife, and a big hug to you! HeartsCanHope Apr 22 #35
Vibes and hugs received; smiles coming back at ya. Permanut Apr 23 #75
Yay!! Andy Canuck Apr 22 #36
Thanks Andy Canuck.. Permanut Apr 23 #95
The replacements last a good long time Nasruddin Apr 22 #37
Oh jeez you're right.. Permanut Apr 23 #76
Great to hear. Now she'll be able to kick your @$$ all over the house. She's probably looking forward to that. ... aggiesal Apr 22 #38
Hey, she's the brains of this household.. Permanut Apr 23 #80
I am so happy for you both! NCgayguy Apr 22 #39
Thanks NCgayguy! Permanut Apr 23 #102
Great news! 😃 ShazzieB Apr 22 #40
All extremities crossed! niyad Apr 22 #42
niyad the human pretzel! Permanut Apr 23 #83
If it helps! niyad Apr 23 #86
Sending vibes for swift and complete healing, and energy and love niyad Apr 22 #41
No, back home now . Permanut Apr 23 #84
Great news! Here's to a Full Recovery on the quicker side! electric_blue68 Apr 22 #43
Spoken like a true veteran and words to the wise . Permanut Apr 23 #85
YW 👍 electric_blue68 Apr 23 #93
Move Move Move LQ_Dem Apr 22 #44
Right hip for her as well.. Permanut Apr 23 #94
Great news! Hope22 Apr 22 #45
Thank you Hope22! Permanut Apr 23 #96
What Wonderful news. Thank you for sharing. You should know you caused me to spray my tea dai13sy Apr 22 #46
Hey, glad to add something to your day! Permanut Apr 23 #82
Good deal, Permanut! (n/t) OldBaldy1701E Apr 22 #47
Thanks OldBaldy! Permanut Apr 23 #97
That's wonderful news... glad to hear!! InAbLuEsTaTe Apr 22 #53
It really is, she was in pain before and it was getting worse. Permanut Apr 23 #98
Hopefully that's in the past now. calimary Apr 23 #109
Amen to that. Permanut Apr 23 #116
I hope she's up and running soon enough! Bluethroughu Apr 22 #54
Thanks, Bluethroughu.. Permanut Apr 23 #81
"" AllaN01Bear Apr 23 #66
Now that right there is like a standing O on steroids. Permanut Apr 23 #77
Hip Replacement Rehab webhead usa Apr 23 #78
Roger that.. Permanut Apr 23 #79
Welcome to DU LetMyPeopleVote Apr 23 #105
Good news! Happy healing 💚 Clouds Passing Apr 23 #88
Thank you Clouds Passing! Permanut Apr 23 #99
Excellent news! Give my best wishes for a speedy and fully recovery to your wife please! lark Apr 23 #89
Thanks lark, I will your message to her when she wakes up. Permanut Apr 23 #100
That's wonderful! Erda Apr 23 #90
Thanks Erda! Permanut Apr 23 #101
Oh that is wonderful!!!! make a gazillion plans for your next 37 years Peacetrain Apr 23 #91
Thank you Peacetrain.. Permanut Apr 23 #103
Wonderful news! I had a hip replacement just over a year ago. femmedem Apr 23 #92
Thanks femmedem.. Permanut Apr 23 #104
Two things affect how long the recovery will be. femmedem Apr 23 #107
Good info, thanks - I'll check with her. Permanut Apr 23 #115
Good news indeed! Dorothy V Apr 23 #127
Won't be long before she puts this on the record player: spooky3 Apr 23 #106
OMG this is hilarious.. Permanut Apr 23 #117
Good news! FemDemERA Apr 23 #108
Thank you FemDemERA. Permanut Apr 23 #121
Great news!!! ailsagirl Apr 23 #110
Fantastic Duncanpup Apr 23 #112
It really is . Permanut Apr 23 #120
Still alive and kicking, eh? Ford_Prefect Apr 23 #113
Not kicking very hard today . Permanut Apr 23 #119
Hip replacement is truly an amazing surgery. I guarantee she'll feel a million per cent better. Vinca Apr 23 #114
Amazing is exactly the right word.. Permanut Apr 23 #118
Sounds like you made a good investment. 37 years Emile Apr 23 #123
I married up.. Permanut Apr 23 #124
Happiness shared is doubled IbogaProject Apr 23 #125
It has been my good fortune to share both with my best friend. Permanut Apr 23 #128
Great news, treat yourself to anything you want. dem4decades Apr 23 #126
Hey, I'm in! Permanut Apr 23 #129

MIButterfly

(329 posts)
2. YAHOO!
Tue Apr 22, 2025, 05:21 PM
Apr 22

That is good news. Here's to a swift recovery. I wish your wife all the best. Keep us posted.

Tanuki

(15,848 posts)
10. Thanks for sharing this happy report!
Tue Apr 22, 2025, 05:52 PM
Apr 22

Best wishes for her full and speedy recovery, and many more blessed and joyous years together!

🥰🌷

NewLarry

(81 posts)
11. Woo Hoo!!!!
Tue Apr 22, 2025, 05:56 PM
Apr 22

All the best to both of y'all, and hopes for a speedy and complete recovery.

Tell her to put on her dancing shoes, and take her out!

Permanut

(7,062 posts)
52. Ya know what, that's exactly what I'm going to do..
Tue Apr 22, 2025, 11:47 PM
Apr 22

She should be ready in a few months, say August.

Figarosmom

(5,422 posts)
13. Hip replacements have come a long way
Tue Apr 22, 2025, 06:00 PM
Apr 22

My sister broke her hip and had a replacement. She limped for a while but didn't even have to take therapy.

Figarosmom

(5,422 posts)
18. It depends on how you do w/o it.
Tue Apr 22, 2025, 06:10 PM
Apr 22

My daughter is a physical therapist and she says hip replacements are not as bad as knee replacements. Use a cane or walker until you are comfortable walking without. Be mindful of every step and where you are placing your foot as you walk.

soldierant

(8,444 posts)
122. Nothing, including shoulder replacement, is as bad as a knee
Wed Apr 23, 2025, 04:55 PM
Apr 23

replacement. I was told that by a PA at the orthopedic clinic which serves the Olympic Training Center when I was diagnosed with osteoarthritis in the left knee.

3catwoman3

(26,586 posts)
16. I've had both mine done - R in 2013 and L in 2021.
Tue Apr 22, 2025, 06:04 PM
Apr 22

2 night hospital stay the first time. Home same afternoon and walking up the stairs unassisted with the second one - yikes!

Wishing your sweetheart an uneventful recovery.

leftieNanner

(15,949 posts)
22. Excellent news!
Tue Apr 22, 2025, 06:16 PM
Apr 22

That means that you are her recovery coach. I did that for my husband twice. Be fierce with the exercises and she will get strong and able quickly.

Permanut

(7,062 posts)
61. Excellent advice .
Wed Apr 23, 2025, 12:50 AM
Apr 23

She wants to live life at a hundred miles an hour. I may have to put in some speed bumps.

wordstroken

(1,112 posts)
25. Thank you for sharing the good news about your wife's surgery, Permanut.
Tue Apr 22, 2025, 06:33 PM
Apr 22

You are not alone. Your DU familiar is right there beside you cheering you on.

Sending love and hugs to you both.


🦋 wordstroken

Permanut

(7,062 posts)
67. I'm gonna tell her about your experience .
Wed Apr 23, 2025, 01:25 AM
Apr 23

She'll be glad to hear your experience. Okay, just told her. Very reassuring, Srkdqltr.

Permanut

(7,062 posts)
71. She does have some pain now but manageable..
Wed Apr 23, 2025, 02:02 AM
Apr 23

But it hasn't been even 24 hours yet. She will be very glad to hear your experience.

OldSWODog

(98 posts)
34. good to hear!
Tue Apr 22, 2025, 06:56 PM
Apr 22

P, greetings. You're correct: good news (even from others) is enjoyed. I trust the rehab goes well; your bride will likely consider the PTs to be Torquemada understudies but, once completed, may she enjoy a newly functional joint. Cheers, OSD

Permanut

(7,062 posts)
95. Thanks Andy Canuck..
Wed Apr 23, 2025, 12:38 PM
Apr 23

I'm blown away by your response and all the good wishes on this thread. You have truly helped with her healing.

aggiesal

(9,983 posts)
38. Great to hear. Now she'll be able to kick your @$$ all over the house. She's probably looking forward to that. ...
Tue Apr 22, 2025, 07:30 PM
Apr 22

Just teasing.
Again, good to hear.

Permanut

(7,062 posts)
80. Hey, she's the brains of this household..
Wed Apr 23, 2025, 02:56 AM
Apr 23

I'm just the muscle. I'm not gonna mess with that

ShazzieB

(20,442 posts)
40. Great news! 😃
Tue Apr 22, 2025, 07:46 PM
Apr 22

Happy to hear it! I hope your wife has a fast and smooth recovery!

I've been nudging my husband to look into having a hip replaced. Not sure it would be the right choice for his situation, but I'm trying to get him to at least see an orthopedist to find out. Wish us luck, lol.

niyad

(123,507 posts)
41. Sending vibes for swift and complete healing, and energy and love
Tue Apr 22, 2025, 08:10 PM
Apr 22

for both of you. Your DU family is here for you, lean as hard as you neeed.

Cheetos??? Could you go down to the cafeteria, and at least get something more closely resembling actual food? Or have sonething delivered? Will you be staying there while?

Permanut

(7,062 posts)
84. No, back home now .
Wed Apr 23, 2025, 03:29 AM
Apr 23

but the selection was nothing to brag about. Cheese pizza that looks like a doormat, you know the drill.

Thank you for your kind words, makes this challenge a little lighter.

electric_blue68

(21,204 posts)
43. Great news! Here's to a Full Recovery on the quicker side!
Tue Apr 22, 2025, 08:37 PM
Apr 22

From my 2 experiences w PT
•left shoulder [ripped rotators] in my late 30's (and Im a lefty)
•tri-frsctured right ankle [got metal] in late 50's

If she does her PT about 96% of the time she should have excellent results. A little slack off allowed, but that's it.

Good Luck!
)))healing✨️vibes(((

LQ_Dem

(2 posts)
44. Move Move Move
Tue Apr 22, 2025, 09:04 PM
Apr 22

Had my right hip replaced four years ago. Use a walker for a few days. Then go to a cane. Then quickly toss it and start walking and ASAP bicycling. I rewarded myself by growing a beard. Don't stop...this is a long-term recovery. Hardest part was getting my golf swing back. Just didn't feel right for the longest time. I eventually changed my swing (for the better) and am now on track.

Permanut

(7,062 posts)
94. Right hip for her as well..
Wed Apr 23, 2025, 12:27 PM
Apr 23

I'm going to read your reply directly to her, it's like you know her. She's really just getting started on her recovery, but already frustrated about toddling around the house with the walker. She will be delighted with just the idea of using a cane instead.

We've spent a lot of time on the regular bikes; my brilliant idea about that is to get her an electric bike, maybe get her out on the road faster. I'm not telling her that part, her birthday is next week.

Permanut

(7,062 posts)
81. Thanks, Bluethroughu..
Wed Apr 23, 2025, 03:02 AM
Apr 23

She has enjoyed running just recreationally, so I'm hoping a long with you. Looks excellent, for her to get back to it

webhead usa

(2 posts)
78. Hip Replacement Rehab
Wed Apr 23, 2025, 02:30 AM
Apr 23

I had my surgery 9 years ago. No problems.

Make certain your wife does the rehab exercises.

lark

(24,955 posts)
89. Excellent news! Give my best wishes for a speedy and fully recovery to your wife please!
Wed Apr 23, 2025, 10:04 AM
Apr 23

Hope I do as well with my upcoming shoulder surgery.

Permanut

(7,062 posts)
100. Thanks lark, I will your message to her when she wakes up.
Wed Apr 23, 2025, 12:57 PM
Apr 23

It's mind boggling to me as a non medical person that these joints can be replaced.

Best wishes back at ya for your upcoming surgery; let us know results! Just a side question about right or left, dominant side?

Peacetrain

(23,906 posts)
91. Oh that is wonderful!!!! make a gazillion plans for your next 37 years
Wed Apr 23, 2025, 10:33 AM
Apr 23

My husband and I were married 37 years when I had a knee replacement.. and we did lots and lots of planning... and took those awesome trips (and are planning more) it seems like yesterday.. time flies.. Best wishes to your wife .

Permanut

(7,062 posts)
103. Thank you Peacetrain..
Wed Apr 23, 2025, 01:06 PM
Apr 23

We want to follow in your footsteps; number one on her bucket list is Paris, and we will be able to do that now.

femmedem

(8,506 posts)
92. Wonderful news! I had a hip replacement just over a year ago.
Wed Apr 23, 2025, 11:47 AM
Apr 23

The recovery took a while, but now I feel as if there was never anything wrong. It sure feels great to be able to walk all over town again without limping.

Permanut

(7,062 posts)
104. Thanks femmedem..
Wed Apr 23, 2025, 01:10 PM
Apr 23

She will be delighted to hear your experience. She has the same question you probably had, about how long the recovery would take. Your perspective is great as someone who's been there.

femmedem

(8,506 posts)
107. Two things affect how long the recovery will be.
Wed Apr 23, 2025, 01:43 PM
Apr 23

First, did the surgeon use the anterior or posterior approach? Mine used the posterior approach, partly because of a congenital hip abnormality and partly because it's what he's more experienced at. This approach slows the recovery time, but the outcome ends up being just as good.

Second, does she have any conditions that would make her recovery slower than usual?

I know one person who had the anterior approach who was walking on the beach with no walking aids within a few days. It took me over a month to ditch the cane, but again, I have an abnormality that slowed my recovery.

However long it takes, she'll be happy she had it done!

Permanut

(7,062 posts)
115. Good info, thanks - I'll check with her.
Wed Apr 23, 2025, 04:21 PM
Apr 23

No pre existing conditions, and health generally good.

Permanut

(7,062 posts)
121. Thank you FemDemERA.
Wed Apr 23, 2025, 04:36 PM
Apr 23

She's off to a good start. We have that kind of house where you can loop around through the kitchen, dining, living room and hall back to where you started, so she's doing laps (well, only one so far).

Vinca

(51,989 posts)
114. Hip replacement is truly an amazing surgery. I guarantee she'll feel a million per cent better.
Wed Apr 23, 2025, 03:59 PM
Apr 23

dem4decades

(12,711 posts)
126. Great news, treat yourself to anything you want.
Wed Apr 23, 2025, 09:02 PM
Apr 23

And thanks, we here can use all the good news we can get.

Permanut

(7,062 posts)
129. Hey, I'm in!
Wed Apr 23, 2025, 09:25 PM
Apr 23

It has been recommended that my wife increase her protein intake during her recuperation.

So, even though we don't eat much beef, we decided that tonight we're going with the Applebee's $9.99 burger special.

Of course, I'm going for the bacon cheese version because, oh, reasons.

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