Pets
Related: About this forumI been outside burying my little girl. She showed up
here a little over 18 years ago. Beautiful grey and and white kitten around year old. The neighbor down the road had her for their three year old daughter. Then shortly after drove to Chicago and rescued a blood hound dog and that cat said I'm out of here and she found me and has been daddy's little girl ever since.
About two weeks ago my little girl started losing weight and stopped eating. My vet said he could euthanize her, but if she is not in pain to let her live out her life. I found her laying out in the back yard this morning. I just finished burying her and I'm so sad.
My neighbor's three year old daughter graduated with her bachelor's degree in college this year and now going to the university to be a forensic scientist. Never had a pet live this long.
Here is her picture of Gracie when she was around four or five years old.

Deuxcents
(22,796 posts)The Blue Flower
(5,941 posts)Sounds like she went peacefully, anyway. Something to be grateful for.
TommieMommy
(2,106 posts)Whyisthisstillclose
(210 posts)These little animals are family, and they are gifts to us. I'm glad you had so long with her. She knew you loved her.
AltairIV
(884 posts)So very sorry for your loss. She was an absolute beauty.
alittlelark
(18,991 posts)I can feel your pain from here You were very lucky to have been chosen by her, and she was smart to find you
rockbluff botanist
(360 posts)Gracie lived her very best life. She will be with you always.
My back garden is dotted with the many many resting places of my babies. I know that every night their little spirits play in my garden. I wish I could see them. I sit on my garden bench and I can feel their presence.
brer cat
(27,010 posts)livetohike
(23,495 posts)memories you must have of your sweet girl from 18 years. May they comfort you today and every day .
LoisB
(10,866 posts)for so long. Hugs to you.
piddyprints
(14,970 posts)Were going to lose our 17 1/2-year old ginger tabby, Simon today. Just waiting for them to get here. We got him as a very small kitten, just a few months old if that.
Gracie was beautiful. Im glad she found you and had a long, wonderful life.
femmedem
(8,516 posts)I know you are giving Simon one last kindness today--and I know how much that kindness hurts.
piddyprints
(14,970 posts)Its the best we can do at this point.
niyad
(124,634 posts)and send peace and comfort to his grieving loved ones.
I am so very sorry for the loss of your precious boy.
piddyprints
(14,970 posts)It was done at 2:30 and very peaceful. We're still crying... can't help it. But he is not suffering and hopefully is having a reunion with his sisters and brothers. We're so thankful that our vets will come out to the house so we didn't have to give the little guy a terrifying car ride as his last experience.
Solly Mack
(95,146 posts)TomSlick
(12,493 posts)I've been there several times and it never gets easier.
femmedem
(8,516 posts)She was lucky to have so many years with you, but I know that doesn't ease your grief.
onecaliberal
(36,594 posts)

Bumbles
(394 posts)She reminds me of my Pippin, a Korat who lived to be twenty-two years old. I had trained him to use the toilet, and he used the head on the boat. He was my best buddy. As he became weaker, I fixed him a cozy bed and a litter box in the bathroom. One day he struggled to get up to greet me for the third time that day. I told him was okay, it was time for him to go. He put his head down and drifted off shortly after that. I've missed him most days though he left many years ago. He's buried under my studio, and still is my muse.
Though no one could replace Gracie, I hope you'll be able to find someone who can reside in your heart next to her, as I have over the years since losing several wonderful companions.
PortTack
(35,657 posts)debsy
(617 posts)She was a beautiful companion who I am certain loved you as much as you love her! Eighteen is a long stretch for a cat and an obvious sign of the love and care she received during her time on this planet. It seems she was happy to be in her comfort zone when she passed.
erronis
(20,299 posts)It's easy/hard to mourn but think about the good times you had together.
I've loved and lost way too many over 70+ years.
vanlassie
(6,000 posts)A good good life.
❤️
WestMichRad
(2,355 posts)Sounds like you lost a true friend.
Clouds Passing
(5,271 posts)
Im sorry for your loss.
Warpy
(113,591 posts)HRH made it to 21. I did get her put to sleep when she started showing signs of pain and told me it wasn't fun any more.
No matter how long they live, it's just never enough.
regnaD kciN
(27,126 posts)Gracie sounds like a wonderful family member.
Lemon Lyman
(1,495 posts)Gracie is such a gorgeous girl.
We're thinking of you Emile.
EverHopeful
(542 posts)And so glad to hear her story. She picked the best home and human.
So glad she had so many years. My Gracie also lived longer than any cat who's owned me.
ratchiweenie
(8,112 posts)Erda
(188 posts)Such a sweet little one.
I'm glad you had each other and that you were there to watch over her.
Mousetoescamper
(6,378 posts)May sweet memories bring comfort.
CousinIT
(11,542 posts)I'm so sorry for your loss!
gademocrat7
(11,531 posts)On the loss of your beloved Gracie.
montanacowboy
(6,525 posts)my heart hurts for you
cate94
(2,975 posts)
irisblue
(35,231 posts)CaptainTruth
(7,716 posts)
totodeinhere
(13,626 posts)I know how you feel. I lost my 19 year old cat. She had showed up in my back yard as a kitten and moved in and took over my house. I loved her very much.
ancianita
(40,770 posts)Hold close your good memories of Gracie.
Picaro
(2,064 posts)She was beautiful
Bmoboy
(497 posts)Gray like Gracie.
Found him outside, like Gracie.
Buried him under a row of rose hips.
barbtries
(30,521 posts)she must have had a wonderful life with you and, considering that we all have to go sometime, her way of going after such a long life, seems just about ideal. I hope you can take comfort from that.
MLAA
(19,322 posts)
Figarosmom
(6,433 posts)And the name Gracie looks like it fit her just right. Sorry she's gone.
demigoddess
(6,675 posts)ago. But I comfort myself with the thought that he is in heaven getting love from other great people. I am sure your sweetie is getting that too.
Pucks mom
(80 posts)
Linda ladeewolf
(939 posts)She looks just like the one I had for almost 17 years. She passed away on June 19, 2017. I miss her a lot. Her name was Little Gray, it was the only name she would come to me for. I raised her from a four week old kitten. She was such a sweet baby.
MerrilyMerrily
(209 posts)She's lovely.
Fla Dem
(26,837 posts)Next month will be a year since my cat and best friend of 18 years "Baby Girl" passed away. Miss her every day.
Skittles
(165,278 posts)Grieve not
nor speak of me with tears
but laugh and talk of me
as if I were beside you
I loved you so
twas Heaven here with you
- Isla Paschal Richardson
DemonGoddess
(5,126 posts)Trueblue Texan
(3,422 posts)I know words are no balm but my thoughts are with you.
CountMyVote4Reality
(274 posts)Thank you for sharing her story. Shes so beautiful. Great vet.
She lived her best life.
LudwigPastorius
(12,747 posts)I dont know if theres an afterlife, but if there is, our good girls and boys will be there for us.
iluvtennis
(21,277 posts)Lunabell
(7,309 posts)She was so beautiful. And I'm sure she felt your love completely. I wish our pets lived as long as we do. RIP Gracie.
pazzyanne
(6,685 posts)

May good memories of Gracie comfort you as you go forward.
sinkingfeeling
(55,678 posts)as long as she could. You both were blessed by your time together.
COL Mustard
(7,445 posts)Been there, done that, and it always sucks. Remember the good times you had with her, and shell always be in your heart.
Faux pas
(15,744 posts)she must have had a great life to have made it to 18 years
DENVERPOPS
(12,747 posts)What a gorgeous lady...........
Every time I have to put down a pet, I swear I will never get another one.....after I have grieved, I always get another one.
Evolve Dammit
(20,880 posts)
niyad
(124,634 posts)and send peace and comfort to her grieving loved ones.
I am so very sorry for the loss of your beautiful, precious little girl. Do not be surprised if she comesto visit you.
yonder
(10,093 posts)We've lost many over the years and it never gets any easier. Then another little soul shows up and seems to help absorb the loss.
Gracie looks to be a little Russian Blue-ish, gorgeous in any case. Again, sorry.
UpInArms
(52,994 posts)Our fur babies live long enough to steal our hearts and never long enough.
I hope your Gracie is curled up with my Wrex and having their best moments together.
OverBurn
(1,240 posts)jtb653
(91 posts)but after losing so many of my own babies I take some solace reading how other people deal with such sad life events Peace be with you.
area51
(12,353 posts)
PatrickforB
(15,235 posts)She's crossed that Rainbow Bridge to the green fields of memory. She was a beautiful cat.
DaBronx
(706 posts)Wishing you strength. What a beautiful cat. A wonderful life. Had one as well 14 yrs. Great everlasting memories. I wish the same for you. Hang in there.
virgdem
(2,265 posts)I feel your pain, having lost 7 kittykids. Fly free to the stars, little one.💔🌈
anniebelle
(914 posts)
JudyM
(29,542 posts)Sending hugs to help somehow my heart is heavy, sad for you. Wishing you peaceful, healing moments through the sorrow, my friend.
calimary
(86,778 posts)So sorry to hear of her passing. Hopefully the love and care from folks here can help get you through it.
Hopefully, Mousetrap, Dub, and Tasha will meet up with her, Upstairs, and show her around, and help her get settled.
samnsara
(18,555 posts)..our fur babies are here to remind us of our own mortality and when they leave they take a little bit of us with them...but they leave so much more of themselves in return.
Godspeed, Gracie... what a GOOD friend you are! (((hugs)))