General Discussion

Jedi Guy

(3,443 posts)

33. My wife is a Canadian citizen and she flatly refuses to enter the US while he's in office.

Tue Feb 3, 2026, 01:09 AM

Yesterday

Too many horror stories of legal travelers being hassled or worse, to say nothing of all the other shit going on.

I suspect the only thing that could move her to go would be if my Mom passed away. I'd have to go to get her affairs in order and I doubt my wife would be content to let me make that journey alone.

But if she doesn't feel safe I wouldn't want to put her in that position, either. It really sucks that this is where we are.

Edit history

Please sign in to view edit histories.

Recommendations

4 members have recommended this reply (displayed in chronological order):

BlueMTexpat Alice Kramden RockCreek Wild blueberry

55 replies

= new reply since forum marked as read

Highlight:

"I missed you in New York!" "No, you didn't. I didn't go. I'm not setting foot in your country again while he's there." [View all] DFW Monday OP

I don't blame him at all. An Australian friend of mine spooky3 Monday #1

It's not safe here anymore MustLoveBeagles Monday #2

My dear DFW, I am so sorry you didn't get to see your old friend. CaliforniaPeggy Monday #3

Thank you for the update. Pertinent. cachukis Monday #4

I wouldn't recommend anyone come here from another country. mdbl Monday #5

Fred Trump should've pulled out durablend Monday #14

FIFA won't pull out of the US. maxsolomon 13 hrs ago #42

No, they won't do anything. ShazzieB 11 hrs ago #45

I'm pretty sure Canadians feel the same way. Sogo Monday #6

They absolutely do CelticCrow 16 hrs ago #40

I don't blame him or them one bit. I'm in CA and I refuse to fly anywhere. Buddyzbuddy Monday #7

Exactly. And I'll limit my driving in any case. erronis Monday #8

Script working as planned. Fear and loathing via propaganda/messaging. erronis Monday #9

Jedem das Seine DFW Monday #16

In Naples, Fl, tourism is way down. That's how this town makes money. kerry-is-my-prez Monday #19

I'll be interested to see how it is in Cape Cod this summer DFW Monday #22

Do you think Putin is responsible for the chaos we're experiencing? rubbersole Monday #26

Partially, absolutely DFW Monday #29

Thank you. rubbersole Yesterday #34

I would guess that type of activity by the US has decreased greatly since a russian asset is in charge of DNI erronis 17 hrs ago #36

Kruschev Did This. BurnDoubt 10 hrs ago #49

New Smyrna Beach is the same way. rubbersole Monday #23

A Florida town dependent on tourism will have a very unambiguous message to send DFW Monday #24

"Air Chance" Alice Kramden 17 hrs ago #38

They used to be pretty bad. DFW 12 hrs ago #43

Surprising because Naples is a Republican Mecca, no? maxsolomon 11 hrs ago #46

Kick dalton99a Monday #10

Wish there was a way we could entice our former allies KS Toronado Monday #11

They DO protest. And the protests are huge. Wednesdays Monday #21

The under-reporting of anti-Trump protests around the world is appalling DFW Monday #25

The Cold War-era editors of Pravda would be maniacal with envy. nt Wednesdays Yesterday #32

Wise friend. paleotn Monday #12

"but no reasonable European could make the trip to the USA if it wasn't necessary, ..." Botany Monday #13

I'm even tense every time i leave the house. Figarosmom Monday #15

I think about that, too when I'm in the States. DFW Monday #20

My friend from Norway says everyone is afraid of Trump/the U.S. now kerry-is-my-prez Monday #17

And our national devolution into an isolated pariah state continues apace 0rganism Monday #18

& isolated from being international arbiter of MONEY! ForeGoneLegsBirne Monday #31

I don't even want to travel within the US as an American citizen. Irish_Dem Monday #27

Dang. I did SO much driving when my mom was in asst. living Nittersing 7 hrs ago #51

I know, I go through some big cities where ICE is located. Irish_Dem 6 hrs ago #54

I don't want to go anyplace I can't drive to. Klarkashton Monday #28

When you live in Europe, but have work, family, and vacation in the USA DFW Monday #30

My wife is a Canadian citizen and she flatly refuses to enter the US while he's in office. Jedi Guy Yesterday #33

Not at all theoretical. tavernier Yesterday #35

K&R spanone 17 hrs ago #37

Same with my family karin_sj 16 hrs ago #39

I'm still following an expat group on Facebook LittleGirl 14 hrs ago #41

My wife has no interest in giving up her German citizenship DFW 12 hrs ago #44

Not Theoretical At All JustAnotherGen 11 hrs ago #47

I wish I could say something reassuring DFW 7 hrs ago #50

My elder son, living in Japan, told us the same thing. RVN VET71 10 hrs ago #48

... and no Canadians, and no Greenlander, and NOBODY from all the Latin American countries... OR ANYBODY Jack Valentino 6 hrs ago #52

One thing my wife reported to me from New York today DFW 6 hrs ago #53

EVERYTHING is 'very expensive in New York', as I understand it, Jack Valentino 5 hrs ago #55