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TBF

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26. I am so sorry -
Wed Mar 4, 2026, 06:09 PM
20 hrs ago

for your loss, especially trying to make sense of it all at that age. My dad was 17 when he enlisted (1963) - he was injured but he came home to us. I was a baby at that time; my mom had to send a telegram to a naval destroyer to let him know when I was born. I had uncles who served as well. One that comes to mind was an MP over there, and upon return to the states he buried those memories in alcoholism. He died living under a bridge, many years ago.

Trump, the draft dodger, will never understand what military families go through.

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Deepest condolences on your loss SheltieLover 22 hrs ago #1
What an agonizingly vivid picture you paint with your words. 3catwoman3 22 hrs ago #2
Heartbreaking to read this. redwitch 22 hrs ago #3
And there are those who will never comprehend PatSeg 22 hrs ago #4
This is a powerful message, gopiscrap. sheshe2 22 hrs ago #5
So sorry for lives lost and other war destruction. PufPuf23 22 hrs ago #6
I'm so sorry for your loss and pain, gopiscrap. democrank 22 hrs ago #7
I'm so sorry you went through that MustLoveBeagles 22 hrs ago #8
I'm so sorry for your loss, and at such a young age. greatauntoftriplets 22 hrs ago #9
They don't care fujiyamasan 22 hrs ago #10
Well, some around Trmp will acknowledge it's "bad optics" -- Trmp himself will never, ever care. eppur_se_muova 21 hrs ago #11
Our service members who lost their lives for this country were once honored and revered Grim Chieftain 21 hrs ago #12
What a moving post. My mother died of cancer when I was 8 and it's something that never, ever leaves you. Vinca 21 hrs ago #13
my heart is with you gopiscrap 21 hrs ago #20
OMG - you poor thing. I'm so sorry you had so much tragedy so young. Vinca 19 hrs ago #32
My heart is with you. Hope22 21 hrs ago #14
This is a reminder KT2000 21 hrs ago #15
Do you really think I should this to them gopiscrap 20 hrs ago #24
Yes! KT2000 19 hrs ago #33
This reminds me of my dad's funeral. ananda 21 hrs ago #16
my heart is with you gopiscrap 21 hrs ago #17
And mine with you. ananda 21 hrs ago #18
Thank you for this important post, so well expressed Alice Kramden 21 hrs ago #19
Taps is the most heart wrenching composition imaginable,IMHO. BattleRow 21 hrs ago #21
I'm so sorry for the loss of your father wendyb-NC 21 hrs ago #22
Too sad malaise 21 hrs ago #23
Amen. GiqueCee 20 hrs ago #25
I am so sorry - TBF 20 hrs ago #26
This is a very special post. Thank you. hamsterjill 20 hrs ago #27
I am so sorry for your loss. HeartsCanHope 20 hrs ago #28
Your father Clouds Passing 20 hrs ago #29
Beautiful post. mountain grammy 20 hrs ago #30
Many of us will gladly give you the sincerity you still deserve, gopiscrap. calimary 20 hrs ago #31
Here's the reaction to your post Mme. Defarge 18 hrs ago #34
will do that gopiscrap 18 hrs ago #35
I hope you'll let us know Mme. Defarge 17 hrs ago #37
Thank you for sharing your story. yellow dahlia 18 hrs ago #36
And now I'm ugly crying EuterpeThelo 17 hrs ago #38
K&R spanone 17 hrs ago #39
I hope you're watching/watched Lawrence. Mme. Defarge 16 hrs ago #40
Wow! I too was 7 years old when blue-wave 15 hrs ago #41
Thank you. God bless and comfort you. AverageOldGuy 14 hrs ago #42
"" AllaN01Bear 4 hrs ago #43
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