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Sympthsical

(11,353 posts)
13. Yes, that pissed me off
Mon Jun 29, 2026, 08:32 PM
Jun 29

I've been to S.F. Pride functions many times over the years. I stopped going as often once I moved out to the burbs, got older, and just don't like being in public crowds anymore. (Apparently a win, because the water situation this year was real, real bad. Reports are the events were kind of a shitshow).

But for people to stand there, at an anti-hate event intended to unite people, and just let it go on the way it did. Not one soul among them intervened. They just watched one of our own, a staunch supporter of trans rights who has walked the walk for decades, get harassed like that.

I know many people just stay quiet around radical activists, because they know if they speak up, they'll be the next target of some of these clearly mentally imbalanced people.

But still - Where is the courage in my community?

From what I'm hearing and reading, I'm not alone in wondering why the community has been sitting through this constant harassment of him. These activists are beginning to over-play their position, and the resentment that they're starting to take over our events is real. A lot of people have responded by drifting out of more community centered things like this on account. Just avoid everything, because it's easier.

But eventually, something's going to give with all this. This guy who took the video wasn't even LGBT. He's a cishet activist hijacking our event and attacking one of our own.

And people stood there and watched. Unreal.

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he was assaulted. police report should be filed and attackers arrested. nt msongs Jun 29 #1
Ive watched the video a couple of times and I dont see where anyone assaulted him. Eko Jun 29 #7
assault includes behavior that causes a person to believe they are in danger msongs Jun 29 #8
I saw one person the the left of him shouting. And heard some other people shouting. Eko Jun 29 #10
It's gotten dumb and insane - and dangerous Sympthsical Jun 29 #2
Some people just want to be assholes. RandySF Jun 29 #5
I certainly understand this frustration with democratic leadership fujiyamasan Jun 30 #16
Agree 100% Sympthsical Jun 30 #17
It's clear that this is going to be the Republican strategy this fall. yardwork Thursday #25
Wait... I know about the "defund the police", and the "abolish prisons" tweets. But.... electric_blue68 Thursday #22
That's terrible. yardwork Thursday #26
Thanks! Yeah, who knows what crap they'll pull... I think Jack Smith, or someone else said.... electric_blue68 Thursday #28
Trillions of dollars are at stake. yardwork Thursday #30
Could be...which is why thinking up everything imaginable!.... electric_blue68 Thursday #32
I think that's the best strategy. Get out the vote. yardwork Thursday #33
I'll probably do GOTV phone work like I did before! electric_blue68 Thursday #34
You're a good guy! I need to do more this election. yardwork Thursday #35
Vicious Harassment! Thank Goodness it's Cha Jun 29 #3
This whole episode is so disappointlingly disgusting. TheProle Jun 29 #4
Bigotry of any kind is unacceptable! MustLoveBeagles Jun 29 #6
Sad. And unfortunately illustrative .... stopdiggin Jun 29 #9
The way the group quickly gathered around Wiener sarisataka Jun 29 #11
Yes, that pissed me off Sympthsical Jun 29 #13
"He's a cishet activist" Has that been confirmed? Behind the Aegis Jun 30 #15
Yes, he posted on his Twitter that he's not gay Sympthsical Jun 30 #18
And, surprise, surprise: S.F. Trans March organizers defend protesters who drove out Scott Wiener Behind the Aegis Thursday #19
People are *pissed* Sympthsical Thursday #20
Seems so... Behind the Aegis Thursday #21
They completely misread what bubble they were in Sympthsical Thursday #23
If this keeps up politicians won't feel comfortable attending events. yardwork Thursday #29
Wait what? A cis het man bragged about kicking an ally out of a trans event? yardwork Thursday #27
There is another one out there of him being attacked in a restaurant. Behind the Aegis Jun 29 #12
Another bizarre aspect of this is that he is very critical of Israel. yardwork Thursday #31
A gay man Boo1 Jun 29 #14
... Solly Mack Thursday #24
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