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In reply to the discussion: I will stand up for Palestinian human rights and firmly against bigotry aimed at Jews. They are the same job [View all]haele
(15,734 posts)The economic, political, or social potholes they see in their road, the big ones that make their lives or the welfare of their community difficult.
They're the hero if they can fix those potholes. Everything will be just fine, and they can sit back and feel good about their work.
It's difficult being told that other people have different roads that might be just as important - not just to them, but to you in the long run, or fixing potholes is a never-ending job. A lot of folks see those reminders as criticism, and if one's social vision tends to be narrow, then one 's priorities can be seen as narrow, also.
The ones who made it through a flood feel guilty and defensive if they couldn't seem to see there were people drowning behind them. Especially when others point it out to them.
How one deals with the issues of others - as an intrusion or an opportunity, is an individual trait or choice.