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DFW

(60,904 posts)
9. That is one very ugly piece of opulence
Fri Jul 3, 2026, 05:10 PM
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No two ways about it. Even if I owned it, I'd never admit to it.

Now that you mention it, I do have a ring that I never wear. It is too small for me. My grandfather had it made for (I don't know who) in 1925. It is a small gold signet ring with the invented (by him) coat of arms of our family: a simple shield with three question marks in the middle and the Latin phrase beneath on a tiny scroll: "Cur Non?" A great family motto. (That's Latin for Why Not?). I always thought it was gravitas disguised as simplicity.

He never lost his wit. In 1925, he was 31. In 1993, he had a Christmas card made up with a photo of himself, looking every bit of his 99 years, and the caption: "Compliments of the Seasoned." Now THERE are some genes I'm proud of. I always thought it was gravitas disguised as simplicity.

He never lost his wit. He lived in New York City. Even though I lived the farthest away by far, I was the only one of his grandchildren who visited him regularly right up until the end (he was 102), so he bequeathed me that ring, and a painting he made--at age 80!!--of his impression of a boardroom meeting. I have never been to one, but I'm betting his impression was accurate:



Needless to say, it is the most precious thing I have hanging on my wall.

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That thing is a RING? DFW Friday #1
Right up his alley, n'est pas? I added another picture of it. littlemissmartypants Friday #2
That is one very ugly piece of opulence DFW Friday #9
Your grandfather sounds like a fun and interesting person. littlemissmartypants Friday #20
kind of in the style of a super bowl ring rampartd Friday #15
I don't even know who "Brady" is. DFW Friday #17
brady is a footballer with several of those over the top super bowl rings rampartd Friday #18
OK, got it, thanks DFW Friday #19
I like a bit of bling, but that is effin' FUGLY! 3catwoman3 Friday #3
Hideous Scrivener7 Friday #4
The framers of the Constitution wanted to insulate the president + federal officials from corrupting influences... ultralite001 Friday #5
THIS snot Friday #12
They didn't tell him it's held together with 86 tiny screws and 47 minuscule nuts Blues Heron Friday #6
What are the chances he DOESN'T take it with him when he goes? Vinca Friday #7
Gaudy beyond belief. greatauntoftriplets Friday #8
Gifts given to the "president" belong to the American people. Full stop! yellow dahlia Friday #10
Or TSF will have to buy it at full market value via GSA. sinkingfeeling Friday #11
Oh right. Thanks for that. yellow dahlia Friday #13
He'll ignore that, too. Blaukraut Friday #14
i'd be glad to see him go if he jacked up the remains of the white house rampartd Friday #16
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