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25. The alternative for many who would choose

Wed Feb 18, 2026, 07:32 AM

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medical assistance to end their life is that or unbearable pain , relentless deterioration, or just plain suicide. I am in favor of leaving the choice up to the individual and family.

I tried to help my late husband face the decision I knew was coming by moving us to Bonaire in 2015 where assisted suicide is legal, not just for terminal patients. He refused to go. In the end, he blew his brains out in 2018 leaving not only a physical mess, but a legal, financial and psychological mess, too. It would have been a lot easier for everyone all around if his doc had been able to help him take the step when he was ready to go.

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