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Emile

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Thu Jul 2, 2026, 06:13 PM Jul 2

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Post funeral eulogy.

Yesterday was a tough day for me.
I went to the funeral of my best friend. 70 years of friendship is a long time. Lots of memories. Growing up, we lived one city block from each other. My earliest memory is sitting side by side in the first grade.

When we were six years old, he rode his bicycle to my house to show me he can ride without training wheels. He peddled his bike down our driveway, and out into the street right out in front of a car. The car hit him and threw him into the air. Another car going the other way ran over him and drugged his body for 30 yards or more. I witnessed the whole thing right in front of my little eyes. I ran out in the street, and his little mangled up body was still under the car. Blood everywhere, and I saw a bone sticking out of his leg. After a long hospital stay, he was sent home in a body cast for almost a year. This set him back one year in school from me, but over the years we always remained best of friends.

The funeral was yesterday, and I'm doing okay. Yesterday was tough seeing my old friend go. The preacher mentioned my name, and the story of my friend when he was six years old being ran over by two cars. The preacher was looking at me, and told everyone my friend should have died that day. But, it wasn't his time. He lived another 70 years, and touched everyone in this room. He went on, and on about meeting his wife, children, and grandchildren and how he had a full life.

My life continues, but I will miss him dearly. I still have all my memories. The most fondest memories are of fishing trips to Itaska County in Northern Minnesota, and as far north as Sioux Lookout, Ontario He always said to me, I love you.

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Post funeral eulogy. [View all] Emile Jul 2 OP
... alwaysinasnit Jul 2 #1
A very sweet story of your friendship ((💐)) Deuxcents Jul 2 #2
Thanks for sharing Botany Jul 2 #3
Gorgeous scene! calimary Jul 2 #24
It's hard sometimes to be thankful when the loss is so profound Easterncedar Jul 2 #4
I can imagine your pain malaise Jul 2 #5
You're lucky SuzyandPuffpuff Jul 2 #6
Condolences. Amazing long friendship. Onthefly Jul 2 #7
Sincere condolences, Emile gademocrat7 Jul 2 #8
Thank you gademocrat7. Emile Jul 3 #34
You wrote about your friend with such care. democrank Jul 2 #9
Being friends for that long, sounds more like losing a brother. 70sEraVet Jul 2 #10
Hey, Emile, thank you for sharing this difficult time you're going through. calimary Jul 2 #11
Great suggestion. I can't sleep, so I just now had a thought that made me laugh. Emile Jul 3 #32
Now yer talkin'! calimary Jul 3 #33
Emile.. I am so sorry for your loss. mountain grammy Jul 2 #12
💙💙💙 godsentme Jul 2 #13
That is so wonderful. warmfeet Jul 2 #14
Nothing prepares us. Holding you in my heart, Emile. ❣️🫂 littlemissmartypants Jul 2 #15
Beautiful memories of a lifelong friendship Grim Chieftain Jul 2 #16
My deepest sympathy Emile. Fla Dem Jul 2 #17
What was your friend's name? BaronChocula Jul 2 #18
Thanks, I sent you his first name. Emile Jul 2 #20
Thank you for sharing that beautiful sentiment. oasis Jul 2 #19
What a wonderful tribute to your dearest friend. Tanuki Jul 2 #21
Sending you love and peace.💙 PittBlue Jul 2 #22
My deepest condolences for your loss Emile. What s KPN Jul 2 #23
Friendships that last that long are so rare. Laffy Kat Jul 2 #25
Delightful tribute.. Permanut Jul 2 #26
My deepest condolences on the loss of your friend. HeartsCanHope Jul 2 #27
I'm so sorry for the loss of your dearest friend choie Jul 3 #28
🫂 UpInArms Jul 3 #29
The hardest part of living long is the losses IbogaProject Jul 3 #30
Memories are a wonderful thing Figarosmom Jul 3 #31
I am very sorry for the loss of your dear friend, Emile. May the memories that you shared, be a blessing to you. He will debm55 Jul 3 #35
I'm so sorry for your loss. Trueblue Texan Jul 3 #36
There was no funeral 70 years ago The Blue Flower Jul 3 #37
I am so sorry and thank you for the heartfelt post. 70 years is an amazingly long friendship. Evolve Dammit Jul 3 #38
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