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Bayard

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60. I'm so sorry, John

Mon Jul 13, 2026, 11:21 PM

18 hrs ago

It never gets any easier to lose a beloved fur kid, I know from much experience.

I've always held any of mine that had to leave me. It really helps them not be scared, and they take the pettings and sound of your loving voice with them. You're doing the right thing.

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I just got off the phone with the Veterinarian, [View all] JMCKUSICK 21 hrs ago OP

It seems that you are doing him a kindness biophile 21 hrs ago #1

Exactly. We can give them a quiet and gentle passing. erronis 21 hrs ago #10

I know you're right, and I feel right doing it, JMCKUSICK 20 hrs ago #18

Cuddles knows you love him. Maybe he wanted to stay with you as long as he could catrose 19 hrs ago #39

Your avatar looks like him, he had a round happy face JMCKUSICK 19 hrs ago #43

Really? Then I know he wanted every possible minute with you. catrose 17 hrs ago #67

He so loved our walks, JMCKUSICK 17 hrs ago #68

I am so sorry. John. Love, debbie debm55 21 hrs ago #2

Thank you Debbie, you're the best. JMCKUSICK 20 hrs ago #19

Do NOT beat yourself up. Life is finite and, yeah, that hurts Attilatheblond 21 hrs ago #3

I'm certainly open to that, I still talk to his sister Snuggles every single day. JMCKUSICK 21 hrs ago #9

😢 johnp3907 21 hrs ago #4

How beautiful JohnP3907 JMCKUSICK 21 hrs ago #11

I love this piece BonnieJW 20 hrs ago #22

😢 bamagal62 20 hrs ago #33

Oh no, John! What did the vet say is wrong with him? SheltieLover 21 hrs ago #5

His kidneys have just shut down JMCKUSICK 21 hrs ago #12

Oh no! SheltieLover 21 hrs ago #13

Thank you SheltieLover JMCKUSICK 20 hrs ago #21

You are a great guy, John SheltieLover 20 hrs ago #25

I am so sorry to hear this Alephy 21 hrs ago #6

Thank you Alephy JMCKUSICK 18 hrs ago #63

It's so hard 😫 i know Faux pas 21 hrs ago #7

I'm sorry John Niagara 21 hrs ago #8

Yu always do yr best SuzyandPuffpuff 21 hrs ago #14

So sorry Omaha Steve 21 hrs ago #15

I'm sorry for your loss, it's something every pet owner eventually has to face FakeNoose 20 hrs ago #16

Love in action, for the benefit of another LatteLady 20 hrs ago #17

I'm so sorry - it is the very worst part of pet ownership. TBF 20 hrs ago #20

I remember being thirteen and understanding that pain is the price we pay JMCKUSICK 18 hrs ago #57

I am so sad for you, John. Nanuke 20 hrs ago #23

Thank you so very much Nanuke, JMCKUSICK 18 hrs ago #58

I'm so so sorry. Peace to you, John Scrivener7 20 hrs ago #24

I'm so sorry! Ocelot II 20 hrs ago #26

"We who choose to surround ourselves The Wizard 20 hrs ago #27

I'm sorry MustLoveBeagles 20 hrs ago #28

So sorry so sad. I know how it feels. I'm going through it too stay strong. Walleye 20 hrs ago #29

JohnP reminded us of what they would say if they could talk to us, Thanks for everything. I had a wonderful time. Polly Hennessey 20 hrs ago #30

❣️🫂 littlemissmartypants 20 hrs ago #31

I'm sorry you are suffering through this painful time. JoseBalow 20 hrs ago #32

I am so sorry. ❤️ bamagal62 20 hrs ago #34

I am so sorry for you. I've had to let a pet go twice. It is always heart wrenching. He'll always be with you. Fla Dem 20 hrs ago #35

I'm so sorry. This is hard. yardwork 20 hrs ago #36

Been there Botany 20 hrs ago #37

John... LuckyCharms 19 hrs ago #38

Oh no, John, this is not what any of us wanted to hear MIButterfly 19 hrs ago #40

So sorry for you. I had to put my kacekwl 19 hrs ago #41

Deepest condolences to you SheltieLover 19 hrs ago #52

Thanks kacekwl 8 hrs ago #82

Sorry to hear this, kacekwl Bayard 18 hrs ago #59

Thank you kacekwl 8 hrs ago #81

I am so sorry for your loss, kacekwl MIButterfly 18 hrs ago #65

Thanks kacekwl 8 hrs ago #80

Lady of the Beasts, please take Your little one gently home in Your niyad 17 hrs ago #70

Just an hour ago, I posted this in a different thread. maybe it will help a little. 3catwoman3 19 hrs ago #42

That's a fantastic perspective, and I'll keep it with me tomorrow. JMCKUSICK 19 hrs ago #45

So very sorry angrychair 19 hrs ago #44

Thanks for the reminder that a miracle is indeed possible Angrychair. JMCKUSICK 19 hrs ago #47

gentle 🫂 mwmisses4289 19 hrs ago #46

I lost my "big dog" about five weeks ago. Ilsa 19 hrs ago #48

Thank you Ilsa, I appreciate the sentiment. JMCKUSICK 19 hrs ago #51

Deepest condolences to you SheltieLover 19 hrs ago #53

"" AllaN01Bear 19 hrs ago #49

Sorry to hear this orangecrush 19 hrs ago #50

I'm so very sorry. sinkingfeeling 18 hrs ago #54

Thank you Sinkingfeeling. JMCKUSICK 9 hrs ago #79

I'm so sorry for you. MN2theMax 18 hrs ago #55

Thank you MN2theMax, JMCKUSICK 18 hrs ago #56

I'm so sorry, John Bayard 18 hrs ago #60

Thank you Bayard, I'll truly be honored to do that for him, JMCKUSICK 18 hrs ago #61

I really am so sorry. LoisB 18 hrs ago #62

Thank you LoisB, I know and feel it from here. JMCKUSICK 18 hrs ago #64

My dear friend, I am so very sorry to hear this. Please know that you niyad 17 hrs ago #66

Thank you Niyad, you must be an answer to one of my prayers, JMCKUSICK 17 hrs ago #69

They will take good care of hm and his sister. And do not be surprised niyad 17 hrs ago #71

I fully expect something to happen, it's crazy how JMCKUSICK 15 hrs ago #74

Thinking of you, and Cuddles Laurelin 16 hrs ago #72

Thank you Laurelin. JMCKUSICK 9 hrs ago #78

Oh John, 😞 I am so sorry you are having to face this. Know that the deep sadness you feel is the true evidence that KitFox 15 hrs ago #73

I've thought that in heaven, he will be a story JMCKUSICK 15 hrs ago #75

Just be there with Toby. Dunc 15 hrs ago #76

Good morning Dunc, JMCKUSICK 9 hrs ago #77