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mahatmakanejeeves

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Mon Jul 13, 2026, 10:39 AM Monday

N.J. man says he was almost kicked off plane after flight attendant found shirt offensive [View all]

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N.J. man says he was almost kicked off plane after flight attendant found shirt offensive

By Andrew Ramos
July 12, 2026 / 11:30 PM EDT / CBS New York

A New Jersey man says his t-shirt nearly got him kicked off a United Airlines flight. ... Sam Saadeh, of Linden, was on a flight traveling from Atlanta to Newark Liberty International Airport on June 4 while wearing a t-shirt that said, "Bombing kids is not self defense." ... Saadeh, who is of Palestinian descent, said the t-shirt holds a deeper meaning and advocates for children. ... According to a recent United Nations report, more than 20,000 children have been killed in Gaza by Israel in what have been described as targeted attacks. The Israeli government has rejected the report and has denied deliberately targeting civilians.

"Change your shirt or you can't get on this flight"

Saadeh told CBS News New York he was "very confused" when a supervisor pulled him off the plane just after boarding. ... "He was like, 'Hey, the flight attendant finds your shirt offensive,' and I was like, 'Why?'" Saadeh said. "He goes, 'Here are the choices. Either you change your shirt or you can't get on this flight.'"


A New Jersey man was on a flight traveling from Atlanta to Newark on June 4, 2026, while wearing a t-shirt that said, "Bombing kids is not self defense."
CBS News New York

Both upset and humiliated, Saadeh says he opted to change, but claims he couldn't get specific answers, even when he landed in Newark, where he spoke to airline personnel. ... "She kept saying, like, 'You could see how the shirt is offensive.' I was like, 'I can't see how the shirt is offensive,'" Saadeh said. "She was like, 'It's 2026.' I was like, 'I know what year it is.'" ... He added, " 'Do you think kids shouldn't be bombed, or kids should be bombed? Like, what are you offended by?'"

Flier files complaint with DOT

A United spokesperson said in a statement to CBS News New York, "This customer flew as scheduled after changing his shirt." ... As per the airline's rules posted on its website, United has the right to deny transport to passengers who are "not properly clothed, or whose clothing is lewd, obscene or offensive." ... Saadeh said he is consulting with lawyers.

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Did his darker skin (visible in picture) RockCreek Monday #1
Hmmmm - let's guess. 3catwoman3 Monday #3
Or three guesses, first two don't count....🤔 littlemissmartypants Monday #6
Hmmm.... OldBaldy1701E 23 hrs ago #92
I'm not offended. badhair77 Monday #2
"How dare you prick my conscience... AloeVera Monday #4
Who supported bombing kids? yardwork Monday #12
The person "offended". AloeVera Monday #18
???? yardwork Monday #19
You are somehow conflating two very distinct policies. AloeVera Monday #30
There must be a more detailed article that is being referenced here. yardwork Monday #31
Since you believe a policy against offensive attire and one on endangering public safety are one and the same... AloeVera Monday #45
I appreciate your research into this. yardwork Monday #46
I appreciate your research into this. yardwork Monday #47
Lack of research is not the problem here. AloeVera Monday #51
It's not a question of enforcing a long-standing policy SpankMe Monday #39
We all know what the shirt refers to TBF Monday #68
Airlines treat flying as a privilege, not a right. yardwork Monday #69
lol - yes all of that is factual TBF Monday #70
I'm certainly not defending it. yardwork Monday #71
Wearing a shirt is not defacing property - TBF Monday #73
We all must kowtow to our corporate masters Farmer-Rick 23 hrs ago #93
If you want to fly on a commercial airline, yes. yardwork 22 hrs ago #94
What the heck United? One of your flight attendants found that offensive? Biophilic Monday #5
Welcome to the United States of Authoritarianism. littlemissmartypants Monday #8
Here's what I would have told the personnel he spoke with BaronChocula Monday #64
Any reference to bombing or bombs gets anyone kicked off planes, yardwork Monday #7
My thought exactly. And good morning. NT mahatmakanejeeves Monday #9
Good morning! yardwork Monday #10
Maybe she should have explained that policy whathehell Monday #16
Sounds like she did. yardwork Monday #17
As the passenger said, whathehell Monday #41
According to the article, that's exactly what happened. yardwork Monday #42
"joked about a bomb" ... VERY DAMNED DIFFERENT. Again CONTEXT matters. hlthe2b Monday #50
I read your report of the article whathehell Monday #52
You might be responding to the wrong post? yardwork Monday #54
You are correct whathehell Monday #58
No worries at all. yardwork Monday #61
Good.. whathehell Monday #66
You are correct whathehell Monday #59
Again context matters for use of the word "bomb" hlthe2b Monday #49
Exactly.. whathehell Monday #56
Nice stretch there. AloeVera Monday #20
Context matters, yardwork. That is an incredible stretch. I like his lawyer's odds on this one. hlthe2b Monday #24
Really. yardwork Monday #27
Uggh huh. Threatening to remove him if he did not remove his shirt is a viable "harm" especially hlthe2b Monday #36
yeah- R0ckyRac00n Monday #55
Thanks for confirming what I suspected. ShazzieB Monday #67
The First Amendment is not relevant Cirsium Monday #83
THANK YOU Skittles Monday #81
It will be settled out of court. The Wizard Monday #11
Did he miss the flight? yardwork Monday #15
So their policy is if anyone of their staff is offended by your shirt, intheflow Monday #34
I think the DID understand what the shirt meant, Haggard Celine 21 hrs ago #96
You don't say the word "BOMB" in an airport or on a jet... nor should you make references to them. QueerDuck Monday #13
His subsequent actions tend to support that conclusion. yardwork Monday #14
Really...? displacedvermoter Monday #23
You. Don't. Say. BOMB. In. An. Airport. 💣️✈️ QueerDuck Monday #26
Ok displacedvermoter Monday #29
He didn't say it. AloeVera Monday #38
Blaming the flight attendant personally ignores the reality of the airline industry and how corporate liability works. QueerDuck Monday #72
The airline itself characterized it as a dress code violation, not a safety violation. AloeVera Monday #74
Passengers must obey flight crew instructions. He did. Then whined about it. End of story. QueerDuck Monday #75
So, using your own words, someone made a "subjective judgement" AloeVera Monday #78
As a legitimate backup to the threatening word of bomb. Yes. When it comes to flight crew the rule is simple.... QueerDuck Monday #79
I gave up to attend to my whiplash. AloeVera 21 hrs ago #95
I want that shirt to wear to protests, Bayard Monday #21
This is the ridiculous side of those who want to make everything antisemitic and there are those hlthe2b Monday #22
Who said this incident is antisemitic? yardwork Monday #28
I listed this as but one of several possibilities. Again, jumping to conclusions is problematic hlthe2b Monday #32
What similar incidents? yardwork Monday #35
If she found that offensive then she must find 'Bombing kids is self defense' acceptable ToxMarz Monday #25
Exactly! If his flight partner had a t-shirt with your slogan, which one would get kicked off? TheRickles Monday #77
A thought experiment relogic Monday #33
I find that to be extraordinarily unlikely. yardwork Monday #37
Please be specific relogic Monday #40
Your last sentence. yardwork Monday #43
So, then relogic Monday #53
Sure, the Trump administration is nuts and authoritarian. yardwork Monday #60
You underestimate relogic Monday #85
or maybe Skittles Monday #84
Hell, I want one! no_hypocrisy Monday #44
Just don't try to wear it on a plane! yardwork Monday #48
In related news Soul_of_Wit Monday #57
He'll win Joinfortmill Monday #62
He didn't mention any names. Why would one be upset?. twodogsbarking Monday #63
Me feelwings were hurt. I've seen shirts on planes WAY more "Hot Words" chouchou Monday #65
Irony... Both sides of the conflict could use the same meme/slogan on their propaganda. OC375 Monday #76
Would an idiot donning mAga attire get treated the same? BHDem53 Monday #80
Not likely... displacedvermoter Monday #82
In solidarity.... Dethhogan Monday #86
Selective reading by a not too bright airline person. Aussie105 Monday #87
I'm offended by that United flight attendant RainCaster Monday #88
Will United make the MAGAt change their shirt? Or take off their red hat? maspaha Monday #89
Gonna go out on a limb here and say air travel is not the place to fly your position flags high LearnedHand Monday #90
I'm giving the flight attendant a mulligan on this Ruby the Liberal 23 hrs ago #91
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