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27. I'm friends with her sister and she hates him

Tue May 12, 2026, 12:14 PM

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She absolutely refuses to have him in her house. She said if my best friend wants to bring him down here, she can leave him in a parking lot for the weekend and go see him there.

Whenever my best friend comes down to visit, she stays with her sister and I go over there to see them but only when I'm invited, usually at Thanksgiving and Christmas. Sometimes she comes down and we don't get together at all because she has family obligations, which I completely understand.

Unfortunately my best friend won't listen to reason about that loser. A couple of Christmases ago, we tried to get through to her but she wasn't having it. She just kept saying "oh well."

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I've always gotten along with my friends' boyfriends and husbands [View all] MIButterfly Monday OP

I think that some people just react to flattery, and as we get older, who knows? usonian Monday #1

I had to part ways NJCher Monday #2

Sounds dangerous. I wish the best for her. live love laugh Monday #3

Thank you, live laugh love MIButterfly Monday #13

may I ask, how did these two meet? Skittles Monday #4

This is the most unbelievable part to me MIButterfly Monday #9

scary Skittles Monday #14

Sadly, her son passed away last year. He was only 37 MIButterfly Monday #15

oh my Skittles Monday #16

It's the age difference Figarosmom Monday #5

I don't know what she's enamored wirh MIButterfly Monday #10

yup. i had a brief fling w a much younger guy. mopinko Monday #17

Sorry to hear that. Haggard Celine Monday #6

Tell her how YOU feel... BurnDoubt Monday #8

I have told her how I feel and I only talked about him one time MIButterfly Monday #11

When she has her Epiphany... BurnDoubt Monday #21

Thank you so much, BurnDoubt MIButterfly Monday #25

Sorry to hear what this is putting you through, MIButterfly. calimary Monday #7

Thank you for your kind words, calimary MIButterfly Monday #12

some girls just like bad boys rampartd Monday #18

I've always wondered about that. It never made any kind of sense to me MIButterfly Monday #19

on the back of every harley is a woman who thought she could change him. rampartd Monday #20

And a jacket that sez: BurnDoubt Monday #22

for evolutionary reasons, i guess rampartd Monday #23

How about THAT! BurnDoubt Monday #24

You say she comes down to see her family. Could you try to see her then and maybe get to know the family. ratchiweenie Tuesday #26

I'm friends with her sister and she hates him MIButterfly Tuesday #27