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trof

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34. It's a complicated story, but I'll try to do the Cliff's Notes version.
Wed Oct 26, 2022, 07:25 PM
Oct 2022

1968 - I was a civilian contractor flight instructor teaching army pilots at Ft. Rucker in southeast Alabama.

I was also in the air national guard in Birmingham.
I was crashing on a squadron mate's sofa bed when in Birmingham flying F-84s.

I came in from flying late one afternoon. I was in a sweaty flight suit.
My friend's wife (5' tall) said "I need you to pick up a friend at the airport."
"Here, just take my car."
"I can't drive a straight shift."
(I had a '63 MGB.)
"OK, let's go."
No, go take a shower and wear a suit; we may stop for drinks on the way back."
(Back then we dressed up to go out.)


Here's what I later learned:
1. Maryanne, the wife, had been trying to set us up for weeks. I told her I didn't do blind dates and besides, I was doing just fine in the female companionship department.

2. She had also been touting me to the future Miz t. She was a career woman (Revlon) who wanted no entanglements at this time.

3. When the future Miz t. came walking through the arrival door, Maryanne (all 5' of her) was behind me, jumping up and down and pointing to me like "THIS IS HIM! THIS IS THE GUY!

Less than a year later we were married.

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Yes, 50 years. Met 51 years ago. ProudMNDemocrat Oct 2022 #1
How did you meet? trof Oct 2022 #4
30 happy years. Met on the golf course. SharonAnn Oct 2022 #2
Yes, 37 years. onecaliberal Oct 2022 #3
How did you meet? Mine was a 'blind' date. trof Oct 2022 #6
I worked at a soda counter next to a business owned by his parents. onecaliberal Oct 2022 #8
Foursome? trof Oct 2022 #5
48 years - met at a friend's bar. rurallib Oct 2022 #7
28 years redstatebluegirl Oct 2022 #9
This message was self-deleted by its author Baked Potato Oct 2022 #10
Yes, 10 years, funeral. Xipe Totec Oct 2022 #11
yes.... mike_c Oct 2022 #12
20+years markie Oct 2022 #13
Yes. 47 years. Met in May 1973 in college. I saw him in the cafeteria livetohike Oct 2022 #14
56 years Timewas Oct 2022 #15
This message was self-deleted by its author Baked Potato Oct 2022 #19
Been fun Timewas Oct 2022 #26
Met my Sweetheart, of blessed memory, on a blind date. Mme. Defarge Oct 2022 #16
I'm 60, she's 55, we met 14 years ago and have been married for 12... Drum Oct 2022 #17
47 years. At the bank, she was a teller. Sneederbunk Oct 2022 #18
44 years. bmbmd Oct 2022 #20
43 years - met through a mutual friend. flor-de-jasmim Oct 2022 #21
Over 24 years married. luvs2sing Oct 2022 #22
Yes, 32 years. Quakerfriend Oct 2022 #23
62 years, met in college, married 5 years later, after other relationships. enough Oct 2022 #24
Married 26 years. Met at a dance at College. The dance hall we met at has been demolished. texasfiddler Oct 2022 #25
Yes. 44 Years. Met 47 years ago, in college . . . Journeyman Oct 2022 #27
54 years DavidDvorkin Oct 2022 #28
I have to say I do not condone this, but... OldBaldy1701E Oct 2022 #29
Married Nov 1, 1969 aka-chmeee Oct 2022 #30
April 12, 1969. trof Oct 2022 #33
48 years here! ShazzieB Oct 2022 #31
Met 32 years ago at a Star Trek convention Random Boomer Oct 2022 #32
It's a complicated story, but I'll try to do the Cliff's Notes version. trof Oct 2022 #34
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