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History of Feminism

redqueen

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3. How about someone insisting on buying you things,

Reply to Tuesday Afternoon (Original post)

Mon Aug 25, 2014, 10:22 AM

Aug 2014

and when you keep refusing, they say something like, 'Let me spoil you.'

IMO that is also harassment, and it's the kind that has to be pointed out because people think its just 'being nice'.

Using these kind of blatantly obvious examples seems not as helpful as it could be. Just MHO.

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Know The Difference ... [View all] Tuesday Afternoon Aug 2014 OP

Well that should get the point across brer cat Aug 2014 #1

... lol ... Tuesday Afternoon Aug 2014 #2

How about someone insisting on buying you things, redqueen Aug 2014 #3

I agree and understand. Tuesday Afternoon Aug 2014 #4

If a compliment is freely offered, MadrasT Aug 2014 #5

I agree - transactional relationships suck. redqueen Aug 2014 #6

even sadder to me was the one that was willing to pay for a hug. Tuesday Afternoon Aug 2014 #7

Conditioning boys not to appear weak or vulnerable has a price. redqueen Aug 2014 #8

Stoicism (and I understand what you saying) crosses genders. Tuesday Afternoon Aug 2014 #9

Most men do not buy sex to get hugs. redqueen Aug 2014 #10

It is not a need, I agree with that and, using it to rationalize/justify their actions is Tuesday Afternoon Aug 2014 #11

Power and Control. littlemissmartypants Aug 2014 #12