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In reply to the discussion: first time poster on du spewing anti abortion shit, stands. [View all]IdaBriggs
(10,559 posts)136. Per Skinner, YES. This is NOT a protected group.
http://www.democraticunderground.com/12596754
From Me:
Issue with Alert on "protected" group.
I recently juried an alert on a thread in a protected group. I do not believe the alerter was a contributor to the protected group (HOF) but was offended by the entire thread, and alerted on a long standing running joke while criticizing the thread.
My question: can non-members, or even people banned from a "protected group" alert on threads in these groups? While the issue occurred with HOF, it has probably come up with some of the other "controversy" groups, too, so as an inquiring mind, I would like to know.
Thank you!![]()
From Skinner:
Anyone can alert in any group.
These allegedly "protected" groups are not protected from having to abide by DU community standards. Even people blocked out of a group can still alert there.
From Me:
Thank you for clarifying.
I am surprised there isn't more abuse of that particular feature in some of the more controversial groups, but what you say makes sense -- you want all of us to treat each other with dignity and respect as a community standard, even when dealing with difficult topics.
Thank you for the work you do. It is a good place to be on the internet.![]()
Make of it what you will - personally, I think Skinner and the admins expecting us to treat each other with courtesy and respect even if we passionately disagree with each other is a reasonable community standard. Many of the "protected" groups (HoF gets a lot of attention, but we have other groups that deal with hot button controversy issues, too) can get ... "passionate" about expressing strong opinions.
There are at least half a dozen responses in this thread that struck me, personally, as abusive, demeaning, rude and insulting, but frankly, I have seen worse, and think some of it is just "personal style". It makes for interesting color in the community, but yes, it means those who are offended by such things *will* end up with more hidden posts. (Disclaimer: Recently got my first "non-Meta" hide in ten years by being snarky, so not on the perfect train myself.

My husband and I have joked for a long time about "maybe certain people could pay 'extra' for a special license plate that would allow them to ignore speed limits - make it expensive and require special driving tests to be passed, and watch certain folks - including my husband - dive on that sucker!" Maybe DU needs a special Icon or Sig Line for "Yes, Sometimes I sound like an Asshole, but really, I have some Good Points and I truly VALUE being a part of this community, so cut me some slack, okay?"
Or something like that.

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you want a discussion with a man stating at some point in the 10 months the fetus becomes a child?
seabeyond
Sep 2014
#3
an educated guess. you want to put it to the test? oh wait. hit and run. he is not replying
seabeyond
Sep 2014
#7
by the way, an issue as big as womens bodily autonomy and reproductive rights, i see you nailed
seabeyond
Sep 2014
#9
Aha, that makes sense. I had a problem with my keyboard collecting cat fur and things not working.
uppityperson
Sep 2014
#13
i appreciate your sincerity in your vote. he was a one time poster, hit. he had no interest
seabeyond
Sep 2014
#84
that is the point. he is an obvious troll. and we play all around it. i thought the hide would be
seabeyond
Sep 2014
#94
good to know. i am really looking to see, if i am just so far off on this. my perception totally
seabeyond
Sep 2014
#4
Somebody is here for ...what? 3 minutes?? and they get to insult you?? I think not.
BlueJazz
Sep 2014
#8
tos has nothing to do with letting a post stand. that is community standard. the administration
seabeyond
Sep 2014
#21
Yup, I have had a few private conversations with him about it as well. Bullshit.
PeaceNikki
Sep 2014
#45
you have absolutely no reason to reach an outrageous conclusion. so, the youngest is 21 weeks and
seabeyond
Sep 2014
#27
picking out a time to call a fetus, a child during gestation can in no way lead you to conclude
seabeyond
Sep 2014
#28
None of your business. Keep repeating that. It really is: None of Your Business.
Tuesday Afternoon
Sep 2014
#119
and ALL of those decisions are up to the Woman. And is really None of our Business
Tuesday Afternoon
Sep 2014
#137
this is the point, that i was just saying to another. i do not discuss my personal views, because
seabeyond
Sep 2014
#139
Exactly, that is why they are called personal views. derp. So simple.
Tuesday Afternoon
Sep 2014
#141
this is the problem with your arguments. your own, personalized, caricatures for insult
seabeyond
Sep 2014
#76
"disregard of a late term fetus' humanity." talk about irresponsibly putting words in others mouth
seabeyond
Sep 2014
#96
omg... and this is the fuggin' game i called from your first post, on. you assign it to me and
seabeyond
Sep 2014
#106
that is not my job to prove shit to you. you do not get to assign it to me, simply because
seabeyond
Sep 2014
#109
The stars must have been aligned, I was on this jury too - no comments though :-)
seaglass
Sep 2014
#127
So, anyone can come into our group and chide us for addressing anti-choice rhetoric...
chervilant
Sep 2014
#52
There is a war on women and women's rights, and it's right here on this "democratic" forum
seabeyond
Sep 2014
#73
lol... ya. and they also have their window open to be serving on the juries, too.
seabeyond
Sep 2014
#87
this is clearly, exactly the point. why would we expect anything else. thank you. nt
seabeyond
Sep 2014
#146
Hmm. I can see what you are saying, but he definitely put the "protected" in quotes.
IdaBriggs
Sep 2014
#144
yes he did. he purposely put that there. you are right. and we all heard it loud and clear. nt
seabeyond
Sep 2014
#147
passive aggressive shit.... pisses me off. damn close to jsut saying we are stirring cauldrons,
seabeyond
Sep 2014
#151
throwin' my arm around you woman. i am dealing iwth this stuff, from like three directions.
seabeyond
Sep 2014
#156
and btw... i knew it was not way clear nad too lazy to clarify. my discussion about passive
seabeyond
Sep 2014
#157
actually, i was feeling a connection and unity at the cauldron and cacklin', nothing wrong with a
seabeyond
Sep 2014
#165
i was talking to another, on a totally unrelated part of du, it is certainly NOT a level playing
seabeyond
Sep 2014
#176
thank you chervilant. i do think that everything is crystal clear, and have been given a thumbs up.
seabeyond
Sep 2014
#78
see, you play the passive aggressive game in wording. and that is considered "civil"
seabeyond
Sep 2014
#100
myself and others on the board have had a lot of discussion on passive aggressive behavior, recently
seabeyond
Sep 2014
#104
They supported you right up to the point that they locked you out of the thread.
JTFrog
Sep 2014
#133
i know you are blocked. i wanted to point out. no one claimed you were a stalker.
seabeyond
Sep 2014
#180
What's curious about Juror #3's post is that Skinner has pretty much said...
Hong Kong Cavalier
Sep 2014
#174
Yes, like false accusations of victimhood by claiming people are 'piling on' poor you. Buy a mirror,
PeaceNikki
Sep 2014
#126
Exactly! Had I been on that Jury I would have voted to Hide For MIRt =
Tuesday Afternoon
Sep 2014
#131
Yup. Anti-union - SWIFT hide and shown the door. Anti-woman - "Oh, they are just voicing their
PeaceNikki
Sep 2014
#132
The Message comes in Loud and Very Clear and, since the Democratic Platform does NOT condone
Tuesday Afternoon
Sep 2014
#134
you know. lets quit being hysterical women and simply be pragmatic, factual. guy stuff.
seabeyond
Sep 2014
#142
+1, only to show support, though i know you know. and meh.... to the poster, lol. nt
seabeyond
Sep 2014
#159
thank you. i heard. i thought about editing, but meh... lots of conversation in this thread,
seabeyond
Sep 2014
#161