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jfz9580m

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58. It is important that you understand why
Thu May 14, 2026, 06:52 AM
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When I first came across notions like “mind reading” I was flummoxed because I didn’t bother with trying to figure out how it would work etc.
I find that so silly and childish. Like you are on a game show when the biggest violation of the system of trust is ongoing.

My mom had a boss who was a sexual harasser and an asshole. He used to call her into his office and show her porn pics silently while talking about work. So if someone passed by it would be this mundane work talk but she would see this. People used to think my mom was this very buttoned down Indian woman and she was for all practical, material purposes. But she had a sense of humor and she was pretty hardy and she told me that he seemed to think that it would shock her to grasp that porn exists, when what shocked her was his behavior.

This is all these guys. They want to move tbe convo to my mental health or work ethic or personality. Whereas what is shocking is that all the i dotting and t crossing and these alarming depradations are just rolled out with different industries from worthless tech to gaming and entertainment.

A problem I have with the left I like is that they double down on this oppressor narrative that assumes these lame people who are clearly inferior at reality monitoring get to grab everything ans hand it to some lame people with vocational skills or “we” waste time in drama and theatre instead of going to as many sane police and authorities and getting the real power of different kinds of honesty not to keep this fabric of bullshit going but people who actually get our interconnectedness the normal dull way intuitively fast to shut down these tech creeps. But if they race ahead we can still..
And small

Not with tonnes of people. We can tell them later. More chaos helps Facebook and Google/
And you can all fight about who is more awesome later/ yeesh. Are you out there? Do you see this? These guys are idiots/

Whether you are local or american, help a sister out idiots. Different set of idiots. Not the creeps.
I am sending out a distress signal to the not stupid. Help! I am surrounded by idiots and some assholes think I am a housecat and they seem like corrupt security who will spin this all as white hatting.



My main mentor was awesome. Very grounded These people are all idiots who drag you into their bs while safely keeping their rears covered and expecting you to prostrate yourself for common decency after their mistakes.
Fuck em.

I wilm do the real, non histrionic thing that is exact and accurate.
How would lies and bullshut serve me/

People don’t engage in misconduct and lies because you cannot build on a foundation of bullshit and while pretending that common sense and a reasonable person is a completely imaginary concept unless it serves.
Bah humbug.
Idiots..No soup for them.
Dimwitted tats.

I am bloody well sick of this. If they want to do their drivel in their lanes they can. You trespass on my turf-any of it and I am taking it to the police.
But I will dial it down a notch because ..Jane Eyre.
Maybe these stupid creeps should read a book once in a while.
I cannot think of a worse penance than my actual thoughts tumbling out of my head. It would go the way of Right-Ho Jeeves.
These fuckers will all find a common enemy.

They are all really fucking stupid and angry because the catlady is refusing to pay for a third kid, a fourth kid, one more apartment, a third car, a swimming pool and on and on.
Keep your disgusting male creep parasite mitts off my parents’ pension and healthcare and away from me.
I am filing stalking and harassment allegations. Bringing in more creeps will ensure that the state officials who didnt barricade this will face charges.
I rely on a civilized not trash out of Si Valley or Meninistan/
Really not in the mood..

Well okay fine, if a lefty/liberal atheist women’s libber (celebrities say feminist) scientist’s internal monologue of loathing spills out..
This is bullshit. If you actually talked to the kinds of people I follow who tend to be low power but not daft, some kind determination to be oppressed aside, they are reasonable and saner.
Yeah one has “utopian” wishes and can translate that to honest practicality

Not this si valley bs. No one who radiates flannel is actually nuts.
This is a con one can see through.

I fall into the intersection of Scientist, Non cornucopian Green, Atheist and civilized and enlightened. The diplomacy is for crazies.

I really can’t stand these Stanford student types nor these local creeps. It is the clash of two loathsome types of different kinds but kinda the same. None of these people have any positive qualities and they get po if you notice.

I got it when I was watching that woman in Beef. Because I honestly cannot read the mind of that type of person and this thing is full of them. And I have a love hate relationship with my last mentor.
There is nothing worse than being Norbert Weiner’s dad and then learning how to be “humane” from TED and Pinker. I can barely stand the first. The second is garbage and in combination with

Who are these people? Everyone normal would hate all of them. Why am I the scapegoat?
I don’t know about in the abstract, but I am pretty damn sure that I could defeat thus crowd in any likability contest because they break things, have no lives (not as lame people say it 😤 ..
I share no values with them and yeah they may evolve into someone not utterly crass, shallow, brainlessly materialistic,

These people are pathetic. Pentland, Waber, Thrun, Fei Fei Li, almost all of Hai, the MiT Media Lab, Pinker, Haidt and they are successful verisons of many such sad and lonely people I feel no empathy for at all.
I see people driven crazy by this society abd avoid them

But these are genuinely empty people. They cannot stand silence as they would be forced to look at the hole inside.
Its not the same as not hating people while not wanting to see people or spend yime with people

You cannot be a yimby here. Go take space from ambani and i am filing a criminal case

I dont reactive trash in my house
I love my solitude. It is the one thing I love.
I am pressing charges

Killing my mom and then for 5 years sending these hateful stalkers here.
I am pressint charges but they will stick if I flip bavk immediately. The window of neurogenesis is not small but there are critical points where I big leap can be attempted.
I shitpost a bit while searching for how to communicate with people I thoroughly dislike and distrust.
But I am sane and aware.
And I am serious about filing complaints.


I don’t care about this garbage heap I made over the last 15 years. Its who you are on the inside!
I hate you and cheerfully. That js who I am on in the insude

Those creeps at Facebook Googke etc should neverbe trusted (especially upper management). They are disgusting human beings.
And Prof Hennessy should be ashamed of himself for bringing all this into academic science. He is the only person I ever saw associated with Google who seemed like a bonafide scientist and educator and ..
He is unreadable so I cannot see why he..yeah he doesnt seem that bad. Which is good because he probably hired my horrible mentor whom I support in between prolific rants. I just wanted a normal job ffs.
That place is low rent.
I am not even fancy! Thats how low rent it is.
If it was medium trashy (ie non commodified normal human trashy..well it is too late to pretend to not even understand that..)
But it is seriously trashy and tries to exploit permacrises or avoid responsibility.
Not cool
And i am communicating through a media filled witj people at various stages of grappling with their own relationship with the net, reality etc and I wish them joy of that. I hope they survive
But i gotta get out immediately

This was so not worth it.








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Shoshana Zuboff is correct MutantAndProud Oct 2023 #7
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I think the coercive elements have definitely caused it to get worse MutantAndProud Feb 2024 #16
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Stackexchange is pretty nice for clues and answers MutantAndProud Mar 2024 #22
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It happens MutantAndProud Mar 2024 #24
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It's not abnormal to become- MutantAndProud Mar 2024 #27
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