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JMCKUSICK

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4. I'm praying for both of you Desert Grandma

Sat Feb 7, 2026, 04:24 AM

22 hrs ago

Thank you for sharing your pain with us, and please know the love in this group is second to none and we're all loving you both right now.

When he is able, please share with him how wonderful these fifty one years have been, including your favorite memories. Let him know he's still needed, but give him permission to rest if that's what he needs.

God Speed Desert Grandma
Love, John

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My heart is breaking.. [View all] Desert grandma 23 hrs ago OP

Laying here listening to Mr Maru breathe, I can't even imagine your suffering Maru Kitteh 23 hrs ago #1

I am so sorry this is happening, you both are in my thoughts irisblue 22 hrs ago #2

Healing vibes on the way to both of you. SheltieLover 22 hrs ago #3

I'm praying for both of you Desert Grandma JMCKUSICK 22 hrs ago #4

Please accept my deepest sympathy for what you are experiencing. NNadir 22 hrs ago #5

Sending you hugs and positive thoughts. alwaysinasnit 22 hrs ago #6

I'm glad you find comfort in reaching out here at DU. badhair77 22 hrs ago #7

Good positive thoughts & prayers coming your way 🙏 Raine 22 hrs ago #8

My dear Desert Grandma, holding you and your husband in love niyad 22 hrs ago #9

Sending you both peace and strength. kairos12 22 hrs ago #10

I am so sorry you are going through this. Silver Gaia 21 hrs ago #11

I sympathize. My husband and I have had a long run together. calimary 21 hrs ago #12

💛 🧡 ❤️ Donkees 21 hrs ago #13

Something to ask the doctors Hannahcares 21 hrs ago #14

Sending good vibes malaise 21 hrs ago #15

Sending healing vibes and thoughts of hope purr-rat beauty 21 hrs ago #16

Sending hugs and strength democrank 20 hrs ago #17

I am so sorry. mgardener 20 hrs ago #18

I am sending healing vibes your way. OldBaldy1701E 20 hrs ago #19

I am so sorry that you and your husband are going through this. brer cat 20 hrs ago #20

(((gentle hug)))🫂 mwmisses4289 19 hrs ago #21

I'm so sorry...please try to stay as positive as you can. LuckyCharms 19 hrs ago #22

Dearest Desert Grandma, lark 16 hrs ago #23

Vibes to him and you and your loved ones. applegrove 16 hrs ago #24

Sending prayers for you, he, and justaprogressive 16 hrs ago #25

I am so sorry. 😞 Arazi 16 hrs ago #26

Oh Desert Grandma... CousinIT 16 hrs ago #27

please know markie 16 hrs ago #28

I'm so sorry. Praying he improves quickly and will be able to return home soon. Kidney problems highplainsdem 16 hrs ago #29

Hugs to you, and prayers and healing vibes for your husband Jilly_in_VA 15 hrs ago #30

I am so sorry this is happening Bettie 15 hrs ago #31

Sending my healing vibes to YOU and your Husband!! bluestarone 14 hrs ago #32

Brutal Cirsium 14 hrs ago #33

Sending prayers for you both. LoisB 14 hrs ago #34

OMGOSH Desert Grandma, prayers, positive vibes, positive energy love and hugs. a kennedy 14 hrs ago #35

Wishing you the best at this difficult time (may you have many more precious moments together). waterwatcher123 14 hrs ago #36

Don't give up! LatteLady 14 hrs ago #37

I prayed for you both. Joinfortmill 14 hrs ago #38

Please don't forget to care for yourself JoseBalow 14 hrs ago #39

I am so sorry 🙏🙏 I lost my husband who was my best friend 5 years ago. I miss him every day. Sending hugs and prayers TommieMommy 13 hrs ago #40

That's awful Wicked Blue 13 hrs ago #41

Sending healing vibes KT2000 12 hrs ago #42

Wishing you both comfort and recovery mahina 12 hrs ago #43

So sorry to hear this... haele 12 hrs ago #44

He is lucky to have you, and you, him. Festivito 12 hrs ago #45

Steroids ms.pamela 11 hrs ago #46

Sending good vibes to you & your husband MustLoveBeagles 11 hrs ago #47

Keep up the fight.........NC popsdenver 11 hrs ago #48

Just this... Marie Marie 10 hrs ago #49

I am so very sorry, Desert grandma Grim Chieftain 10 hrs ago #50

Sending prayers cate94 10 hrs ago #51

my virtual arms are around you, Desert grandma UpInArms 9 hrs ago #52

You are in our thoughts and we're rooting for you and your husband! SouthernOregonDem 9 hrs ago #53

Wishing you and your husband B.See 9 hrs ago #54

Prayers and positive vibes coming your way. Doodles 8 hrs ago #55

I'm sending love to both of you. Hope22 8 hrs ago #56

Sending healing vibes and hugs to you. virgdem 8 hrs ago #57

Kidney infection can cause dementia symptoms - be sure they check for this. Liberty Belle 7 hrs ago #58

I am sorry for this Desert grandma..... peacebuzzard 7 hrs ago #59

Life can be so hard DownriverDem 7 hrs ago #60

I stopped and said a prayer for your husband and you. hamsterjill 7 hrs ago #61

I'm so sorry. Beacool 5 hrs ago #62

51 YEARS! Lemon Lyman 5 hrs ago #63

So sorry womanofthehills 4 hrs ago #64

I am so sorry for what you and your beloved husband are going through. HeartsCanHope 4 hrs ago #65

What you are dealing with is so hard, I know from experience with my wonderful husband. My heart goes out to you. MLAA 3 hrs ago #66

Latte Lady offers wise advice. summer_in_TX 1 hr ago #67