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23. Dearest Desert Grandma,

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Sat Feb 7, 2026, 11:10 AM

Feb 7

My love and healing thoughts go to you and your husband. Getting old is certainly not for the faint of heart.

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My heart is breaking.. [View all] Desert grandma Feb 7 OP

Laying here listening to Mr Maru breathe, I can't even imagine your suffering Maru Kitteh Feb 7 #1

I am so sorry this is happening, you both are in my thoughts irisblue Feb 7 #2

Healing vibes on the way to both of you. SheltieLover Feb 7 #3

I'm praying for both of you Desert Grandma JMCKUSICK Feb 7 #4

Please accept my deepest sympathy for what you are experiencing. NNadir Feb 7 #5

Sending you hugs and positive thoughts. alwaysinasnit Feb 7 #6

I'm glad you find comfort in reaching out here at DU. badhair77 Feb 7 #7

Good positive thoughts & prayers coming your way 🙏 Raine Feb 7 #8

My dear Desert Grandma, holding you and your husband in love niyad Feb 7 #9

Sending you both peace and strength. kairos12 Feb 7 #10

I am so sorry you are going through this. Silver Gaia Feb 7 #11

I sympathize. My husband and I have had a long run together. calimary Feb 7 #12

💛 🧡 ❤️ Donkees Feb 7 #13

Something to ask the doctors Hannahcares Feb 7 #14

Sending good vibes malaise Feb 7 #15

Sending healing vibes and thoughts of hope purr-rat beauty Feb 7 #16

Sending hugs and strength democrank Feb 7 #17

I am so sorry. mgardener Feb 7 #18

I am sending healing vibes your way. OldBaldy1701E Feb 7 #19

I am so sorry that you and your husband are going through this. brer cat Feb 7 #20

(((gentle hug)))🫂 mwmisses4289 Feb 7 #21

I'm so sorry...please try to stay as positive as you can. LuckyCharms Feb 7 #22

Dearest Desert Grandma, lark Feb 7 #23

Vibes to him and you and your loved ones. applegrove Feb 7 #24

Sending prayers for you, he, and justaprogressive Feb 7 #25

I am so sorry. 😞 Arazi Feb 7 #26

Oh Desert Grandma... CousinIT Feb 7 #27

please know markie Feb 7 #28

I'm so sorry. Praying he improves quickly and will be able to return home soon. Kidney problems highplainsdem Feb 7 #29

Hugs to you, and prayers and healing vibes for your husband Jilly_in_VA Feb 7 #30

I am so sorry this is happening Bettie Feb 7 #31

Sending my healing vibes to YOU and your Husband!! bluestarone Feb 7 #32

Brutal Cirsium Feb 7 #33

Sending prayers for you both. LoisB Feb 7 #34

OMGOSH Desert Grandma, prayers, positive vibes, positive energy love and hugs. a kennedy Feb 7 #35

Wishing you the best at this difficult time (may you have many more precious moments together). waterwatcher123 Feb 7 #36

Don't give up! LatteLady Feb 7 #37

I prayed for you both. Joinfortmill Feb 7 #38

Please don't forget to care for yourself JoseBalow Feb 7 #39

I am so sorry 🙏🙏 I lost my husband who was my best friend 5 years ago. I miss him every day. Sending hugs and prayers TommieMommy Feb 7 #40

That's awful Wicked Blue Feb 7 #41

Sending healing vibes KT2000 Feb 7 #42

Wishing you both comfort and recovery mahina Feb 7 #43

So sorry to hear this... haele Feb 7 #44

He is lucky to have you, and you, him. Festivito Feb 7 #45

Steroids ms.pamela Feb 7 #46

Sending good vibes to you & your husband MustLoveBeagles Feb 7 #47

Keep up the fight.........NC popsdenver Feb 7 #48

Just this... Marie Marie Feb 7 #49

I am so very sorry, Desert grandma Grim Chieftain Feb 7 #50

Sending prayers cate94 Feb 7 #51

my virtual arms are around you, Desert grandma UpInArms Feb 7 #52

You are in our thoughts and we're rooting for you and your husband! SouthernOregonDem Feb 7 #53

Wishing you and your husband B.See Feb 7 #54

Prayers and positive vibes coming your way. Doodles Feb 7 #55

I'm sending love to both of you. Hope22 Feb 7 #56

Sending healing vibes and hugs to you. virgdem Feb 7 #57

Kidney infection can cause dementia symptoms - be sure they check for this. Liberty Belle Feb 7 #58

I am sorry for this Desert grandma..... peacebuzzard Feb 7 #59

Life can be so hard DownriverDem Feb 7 #60

I stopped and said a prayer for your husband and you. hamsterjill Feb 7 #61

I'm so sorry. Beacool Feb 7 #62

51 YEARS! Lemon Lyman Feb 7 #63

So sorry womanofthehills Feb 7 #64

I am so sorry for what you and your beloved husband are going through. HeartsCanHope Feb 7 #65

What you are dealing with is so hard, I know from experience with my wonderful husband. My heart goes out to you. MLAA Feb 8 #66

Latte Lady offers wise advice. summer_in_TX Feb 8 #67