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lonely bird

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Tue Mar 3, 2026, 06:48 PM 15 hrs ago

Asking for some good vibes and prayers [View all]

Mrs. Bird has gone through a long stretch of pain. She had adult scoliosis correction in February of 2023. About a year later she had pain going down her right leg to her foot. We saw the doctor who did the surgery and after x-rays determined that the rods and screws (32 screws and 4 rods) were where they supposed to be. Suggested she see the pain doctor. So, we did. She had several injections some of which provided a bit of relief and some which didn’t. Pain and weakness became worse which necessitated going from a walking stick to a walker.

Our CNP suggested going outside our normal hospital/medical group to get fresh eyes on the problem. So we made an appointment. New spine doc took extensive history and asked many questions. He ordered an x-ray. When we saw it he noted that the scoliosis correction had been done very well. The back isn’t the problem. She needs a new hip. Surgery is scheduled for March 13. Basically, the ball has collapsed and is almost square shaped.

My wife has had a history of back issues that started with a blown out disc due to sneezing. After the micro lumbar discectomy in about 1987 or so she needed spinal decompression in 2016. One nerve was so flattened going through the vertebra that the sheaf was tearing. Within the next two weeks of that surgery she had two infections (one was staph) that required going back in to clean them out. That caused her scoliosis to really go nuts.

What she wants out of this is just to be able to walk without pain.

Thanks for listening.

Lonely Bird

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Asking for some good vibes and prayers [View all] lonely bird 15 hrs ago OP
Best of luck with your situation. OAITW r.2.0 15 hrs ago #1
Healing vibes head to your wife Lifeafter70 15 hrs ago #2
Healing vibes on the way SheltieLover 15 hrs ago #3
And from me! ++++++++ spooky3 15 hrs ago #11
... SheltieLover 15 hrs ago #12
Yuk SuzyandPuffpuff 15 hrs ago #4
Sending my best thoughts UpInArms 15 hrs ago #5
My best wishes to Mrs. Bird, and to you as well. LuckyCharms 15 hrs ago #6
Your wife has done everything to relieve this pain and as extensive as hip surgery is, I hope it's the answer Deuxcents 15 hrs ago #7
Sending strength and healing democrank 15 hrs ago #8
Sending healing vibes to your wife, lonely bird. sheshe2 15 hrs ago #9
Peace, strength, and rest wishes for you. quaint 15 hrs ago #10
She has endured so much already jmbar2 15 hrs ago #13
Sending good lounge vibes! Phentex 15 hrs ago #14
Sending... 2naSalit 14 hrs ago #15
From personal experience, collapsed hip repair was a piece of cake...though I did not have the other issues. joanbarnes 14 hrs ago #16
Holding you and Mrs. Bird in light and love. Vibes for swift and niyad 14 hrs ago #17
I will add both of you to my prayer list.lonely bird. debm55 14 hrs ago #18
Best wishes IbogaProject 14 hrs ago #19
May good vibes stage left 14 hrs ago #20
Hip surgery has advanced a LOT in the past few years. My wife had it done yesterday, and was walking later in the day. SeattleVet 14 hrs ago #21
YES!! It's not the big scary ordeal one would think it is!! Leghorn21 13 hrs ago #27
Aw, man! I'm so sorry to hear what you two are going through! calimary 14 hrs ago #22
Wishing Mrs Bird and you all the best. badhair77 14 hrs ago #23
Sending good vibes sdfernando 14 hrs ago #24
Pain is hell, I'm sorry she's going through this. cate94 14 hrs ago #25
Dear Bird!!!!! My brother has two great friends who both had their hips replaced after years of misery!!! Leghorn21 14 hrs ago #26
""" AllaN01Bear 13 hrs ago #28
Good vibes and best wishes! Whyisthisstillclose 13 hrs ago #29
oh my Skittles 13 hrs ago #30
Sending healing vibes to Mrs. Bird. virgdem 13 hrs ago #31
Prayers and best wishes for both of you JohnnyLib2 13 hrs ago #32
Sending best wishes and healing vibes for your wife from the great state of Michigan. MIButterfly 13 hrs ago #33
Chronic pain sucks! All the best for your wife irisblue 13 hrs ago #34
Praying for an excellent outcome for Mrs. Bird Tanuki 13 hrs ago #35
I am so sorry. I hope her pain-free days come very soon. LoisB 13 hrs ago #36
Sending good vibes, lonely bird! senseandsensibility 13 hrs ago #37
Sending vibes for your wife and a hug for you MustLoveBeagles 13 hrs ago #38
Praying that Mrs. Bird flies through this surgery and walks with no discomfort. hamsterjill 13 hrs ago #39
My struggles pale in comparison. All I know is that BootinUp 13 hrs ago #40
Praying for you and Mrs. Bird JMCKUSICK 13 hrs ago #41
Healing vibes and prayers for her, and hugs for both of you. highplainsdem 13 hrs ago #42
Healing vibes to your beloved wife... 3catwoman3 12 hrs ago #43
Glad to hear that the back is no longer the problem. I've had live love laugh 12 hrs ago #44
You know, it's almost as hard on Tesha 11 hrs ago #45
Peace, Healing, Renewal, Joy Donkees 2 hrs ago #46
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