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slightlv

(7,706 posts)
50. Empathy and healing energies going out to your wife...
Wed Mar 4, 2026, 05:27 PM
10 hrs ago

I've had a similar journey with my back... including hip replacement. All I ever wanted was to be able to walk my dog without horrendous pain, and to be able to clean my house. At 70 now, I just want to be able to get out of bed on my own. Doc's won't even touch my back, as espoused by one surgeon. And now, hubby is deep into dementia and has heart/arterial problems, so $$$ are all going to pay off his expenses. I can't add more to that, no matter how much I may want to try to find help. Instead, I live on hydrocodone, the amount of which doesn't cover a full month of what I need... and I fight not only my back but now fibro and lupus. The dreams I have at night are happy... it's the waking up I'm beginning to resent. (from "Picard&quot

I do hope the hip surgery will send your wife into walking wellness. It would be wonderful to know there are good docs out there who really try to do what's right for their patients.

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Best of luck with your situation. OAITW r.2.0 Tuesday #1
Healing vibes head to your wife Lifeafter70 Tuesday #2
Healing vibes on the way SheltieLover Tuesday #3
And from me! ++++++++ spooky3 Tuesday #11
... SheltieLover Tuesday #12
Yuk SuzyandPuffpuff Tuesday #4
Sending my best thoughts UpInArms Tuesday #5
My best wishes to Mrs. Bird, and to you as well. LuckyCharms Tuesday #6
Your wife has done everything to relieve this pain and as extensive as hip surgery is, I hope it's the answer Deuxcents Tuesday #7
Sending strength and healing democrank Tuesday #8
Sending healing vibes to your wife, lonely bird. sheshe2 Tuesday #9
Peace, strength, and rest wishes for you. quaint Tuesday #10
She has endured so much already jmbar2 Tuesday #13
Sending good lounge vibes! Phentex Tuesday #14
Sending... 2naSalit Tuesday #15
From personal experience, collapsed hip repair was a piece of cake...though I did not have the other issues. joanbarnes Tuesday #16
Holding you and Mrs. Bird in light and love. Vibes for swift and niyad Tuesday #17
I will add both of you to my prayer list.lonely bird. debm55 Tuesday #18
Best wishes IbogaProject Tuesday #19
May good vibes stage left Tuesday #20
Hip surgery has advanced a LOT in the past few years. My wife had it done yesterday, and was walking later in the day. SeattleVet Tuesday #21
YES!! It's not the big scary ordeal one would think it is!! Leghorn21 Tuesday #27
Aw, man! I'm so sorry to hear what you two are going through! calimary Tuesday #22
Wishing Mrs Bird and you all the best. badhair77 Tuesday #23
Sending good vibes sdfernando Tuesday #24
Pain is hell, I'm sorry she's going through this. cate94 Tuesday #25
Dear Bird!!!!! My brother has two great friends who both had their hips replaced after years of misery!!! Leghorn21 Tuesday #26
""" AllaN01Bear Tuesday #28
Good vibes and best wishes! Whyisthisstillclose Tuesday #29
oh my Skittles Tuesday #30
Sending healing vibes to Mrs. Bird. virgdem Tuesday #31
Prayers and best wishes for both of you JohnnyLib2 Tuesday #32
Sending best wishes and healing vibes for your wife from the great state of Michigan. MIButterfly Tuesday #33
Chronic pain sucks! All the best for your wife irisblue Tuesday #34
Praying for an excellent outcome for Mrs. Bird Tanuki Tuesday #35
I am so sorry. I hope her pain-free days come very soon. LoisB Tuesday #36
Sending good vibes, lonely bird! senseandsensibility Tuesday #37
Sending vibes for your wife and a hug for you MustLoveBeagles Tuesday #38
Praying that Mrs. Bird flies through this surgery and walks with no discomfort. hamsterjill Tuesday #39
My struggles pale in comparison. All I know is that BootinUp Tuesday #40
Praying for you and Mrs. Bird JMCKUSICK Tuesday #41
Healing vibes and prayers for her, and hugs for both of you. highplainsdem Tuesday #42
Healing vibes to your beloved wife... 3catwoman3 Tuesday #43
Glad to hear that the back is no longer the problem. I've had live love laugh Tuesday #44
You know, it's almost as hard on Tesha Tuesday #45
Peace, Healing, Renewal, Joy Donkees 20 hrs ago #46
Everybody... lonely bird 15 hrs ago #47
💐🫶🏽 blm 11 hrs ago #48
Holding you and your wife in my heart for healing and wholeness. Pain is a difficult challenge indeed. n/t TygrBright 11 hrs ago #49
Empathy and healing energies going out to your wife... slightlv 10 hrs ago #50
Sending Emerald Green Healing Light to surround your wife. Bread and Circuses 10 hrs ago #51
I am sending them right now! (n/t) OldBaldy1701E 10 hrs ago #52
Best wishes . . . otchmoson 10 hrs ago #53
All the best to your wife. PittBlue 10 hrs ago #54
Healing 💚Love ❤️ Light 💛 to Mrs Bird. Comfort 🧡 to you lonely bird Clouds Passing 9 hrs ago #55
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